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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So two nights ago i was at the gym talking to a friend i met at my ex's party and we were going on and on. Then i told him to tell my ex that im sorry for what i have done and that all i wanted was for her to be happy. He told me that he doesn't talk to her anymore and he proceed to tell me about how her about her drunken fights and stuff. Then i told him to tell her best guy friend lets say his name is tommy that im sorry cuz i said some stuff i really didn't mean to say and he doesn't talk to her anymore. I also wanted to know what he knew about the guy she's dating because i heard he's a player. He told me he's an alcholic who just drinks and plays his sport drunk and tries to fight people. The guy supposedly thinks hes a total badass. When everyone thinks hes a toolbag and hes a dbag. I really don't know what she sees in him at all. I just don't want her to get hurt but i realize i did everything i could. I shouldn't have told her what i found out because that drove her into his arms more. Knowing i was jealous of him made me push her into dating him. The fact of the matter is i wish there was something i could do to help her. Im just wondering when she realizes what she had and what she has know if she will come back because all her friends she barely talks to know saw how happy i made her and how happy she was with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): sounds to me like you are in a very tough spot. one i have been in before. jerks always tend to get the girl now a days. witch is unfair to us nice guys. my best advice to you would be to get every one of your ex. including her friends family and who ever to turn on this punk. what i have come to find is that the winning opinion always comes out on top. in the end your ex will break under the pressure of every one she knows and dump her ass of a boy friend. in the end she probably will not like you for splitting them a part as was in my case. but take convert knowing that she is save from harm and not being touched by Tommy the drunk. that is a reward in its self. good luck!
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