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He doesn't want to date me anymore because his family won't accept me

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Question - (1 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2011)
A female Nepal age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i had relationship with one guy about 6month, he used to call me, pick me from my working place, bt today he used to said that our relation will nt b accepted by my family so we need to do break up, he said me that i have to take decision either i'll be with him untill he get married with other girl, or had breakup...i dnt want to loosee him coz i really loved him..n tried to convence him that m a rite girl to u n ur family bt due to cast problem his family is nt accepting me n when i tried to convence him tear came on my eyes n i cant speak infront of him n he get irritead of it so he said that he'z nt gona met me anymore...plz help me what to do, i need ur help ...plz i dont wana loose him

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A female reader, amazingk United States +, writes (1 April 2011):

amazingk agony auntYou've already lost him, in fact you don't have him. You can either start the process of moving on now, or delay the inevitable by investing more of yourself just to lose him once he marries the woman his family chooses for him, which just sets you up for greater heartache down the road...

It's hard, but this man is not the kind of man you want. He's not strong enough to withstand the pressure his family is putting on him to be with you. In his eyes, going through all that drama just to be with you isn't worth the headache for him.

Life's not about dragging people along on your journey. It's about finding someone that's going in your same direction that wants to walk beside you and hold your hand along the way.

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