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*azamoo
writes:ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and hes perfect in every way hes caring coinsiderate and a gentleman and has few faults. a week or so ago i told him i loved him and could see myself being with him forever. he got very emotional and said he didnt love me back and didnt know why although i am everthing he wants in a woman, i cant understand in that case whats amiss?? he says hes fond of me and cares for me more than any other girl hes been with, but just doesnt love me. i admire him for being honest and not lying to me. but i can help but feel there something missing that wasnt before this was said. what puzzles me further is he always makes me feel special and wanted, and he said that he will move in with me at christmas so why is he wanting things to progress when he thinks it isnt love?? i am really confuzed and not sure i wanna be in a relationship where im not loved back, even tho feel loved! of that makes sense...confused...
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reader, Mazamoo +, writes (2 April 2011):
Mazamoo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your response, i kinda though the whiole actions are louder so am goinf along slowly with it but its so hard to not just tell him i love him, i said it when he stayed over last night and he said 'i know', which hurt and it wasnt like i was expecting a response.
i am just gna try n let things go back as they were.
Thanks for your advice!!
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