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I can't get over my friend who is not interested in me

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Question - (1 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I cant get over my friend who is not interested in me

she a beautiful girl (she says she isn't but she is)

shes bit of a tom boy she very sweet and caring

and we are very good friends and I've been in love for her for a very long time and even tho i plucked up the courage to tell her how i feel she told me that she want interested in me in that way and made it clear she never would as she is straight. (me myself being a girl and bi)

and every time i think im over her i find my self getting annoyed with her if i dont get attention from her

i normally dont find myself after so much attention from other friends and i still think of her often and find it hard to control myself around her (not flirt and to think of her as only a friend)

how do i get over her? and how do i control myself?

i really dont want to lose her as a friend!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thankyou xx

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntWelcome to liking a straight girl! it happnes to all gay women at some point and is a total pain, but not the end of the world. try remindinding yourself its not you that she doesnt fancy its the gender, that can help.

The main thing, which you wont like, is time. time is a healer and the only really way to get over someone.

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