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writes:why do men say they really like someone as a close friend and then they ignore you like you were never there? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Your question is a bit too vague, it's difficult to answer not knowing in which context the words have been told.
And,of course,not all men act the way you say.
Some men will say " I really like you as a friend " simply meaning that they can't see themselves sexually or romantically involved with the woman- not that they are gonna hang out with her a lot or devote her a lot of time . This often generates some confusion and disappointment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): I've told that myself to a girl who loved me in the past. There were 2 reasons for this:
1. I'm a coward and it was just easier to say that (instead of saying I didn't care)
2. I thought this answer would hurt her less. But it really hasn't. It just gave the girl some hope and extended the agony...
Ask this guy again, demanding frank sincerity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): If the guy thinks you like him as more than a friend and he only likes you as a friend, he'll be distant like that. He probably cares enough not to give you any mixed messages.
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