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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so i have this boyfriend, i have been with him since beginning of may, known him since last october(i went to see a friend who lives in his town, they knew each other, she introduced us, i ended up cheating with him on my bf at the time), we are long distance, we love each other very much, or i love him very much at least, ive been to see him 3 times(including the time when we 1st met last october) but he hasnt come down here yet purely because of money and some other reasons, but i think the plan is for 1 of us 2 travel to see the other for new year now that im in a job and need to accrue holiday and he might have a job by the end of september. we seemed to hit it off straight away last october, despite the fact i was in a relationship, but my friend who introduced us made him out to be a very bad person(drugs, smoking, drinking, getting done by the police) then after we got back in touch at the beginning of april and started going out etc, i went up to see him in june, and i met a couple of his girl mates, one of them told me that he was a very good liar, now, this is where the problem is, i actually believe her and agree with her! because the most recent, finest example is hat he applied for a job, had the interview and when he came out he told me that the manager doing the interviews etc. was quite hot and he admitted that if he was single he would have tried to get with her, then he got called back for a working interview, she rang him that evening asking for references, he gave them to her and is now waiting to hear back, he keeps saying how much he thinks she likes him because she muddles her words up etc. when she talks to him and was very positive about things when talking to him, but this isnt really something i want to hear, and i have told him this. now the bit where i believe he told a big fat lie is that a few days ago he added her on facebook, then he told me yesterday or the day before she posted a status saying she needed a countersignatory for her new passport, my bf told me he commented saying you can do it yourself, and then she said really? and he said yea, then she said thankyou then he said no problem, so while i was logged into my own account i decided to go to his profile and have a look at his wall history, there is nothing there about him commenting on her status, so i thought "right maybe they inboxed each other" so(i know how bad this is but then he shouldnt tell me his passwords) i logged in as him and looked in his inbox, again, nothing, so i looked at his wall history from his profile stil nothing, i even looked at the notifications and there was nothing there to say that him or her commented on her status. i dont get it, he knew that talking about a good looking girl who seems to like him would make me jealous, but why lie and say something happened, that didnt? normally you lie and say somethig didnt happen, when it infact did! there are other examples of this and he also seems to contradict himself a lot. a little help here?!
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