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Flirty boyfriend!

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Question - (21 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

ok well heres the deal. My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months. He's not the best with showing his feelings or pda or really anything. Then there is my "best friend" who he also dated like a year ago. They dated for about 7 months. Now that me and him are together she won't quit flirting with him. When we all hang out i end up getting mad. He hugs her tighter than he hugs me. I mean he flirts with everyone not just her... but i always notice them the most. He is like the biggest flirt in our school. I don't want to lose him. I have a hard time talking to him about this. I already have once. He said he doesn't even realize hes doing it.... it hurts tho. i just want a way to handle it and not feel insecure anymore. I want to have the relationship i dreamed of with him. Hes my world.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

its not just there tho. its at school too. And for homecoming she started making all my plans for me. like i was getting ready for homecoming at HER house and eating with HER and her date. After i told her i was upset with it she said she wouldn't do it anymore but then she did it again today.

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A male reader, jimrich United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

re: i just want a way to handle it and not feel insecure anymore.

google: self worth or self esteem and fix yours

about his flirting - google: relationship skills

and learn how to communicate better to get what you both want.

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A female reader, Sugarbuns Australia +, writes (21 September 2010):

Sugarbuns agony auntStop hanging out where your friend is bound to show up. There must be other people, other places you guys can go where she won't show up and work her "magic". It probably wouldn't hurt to simply tell him he's being played and you're getting a little tired of their touchy-touchy game.

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