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writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. When we go out he is always hugging and kissing other women. He also call them his other girlfriend or wife. I need some good sound advice because if I ask him to please stop doing that to me in public he tells me that I'm jealous. Now he is telling close guy friends that he is going to break up with me because I'm jealous
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Hello, my boyfriend is very much the same, he's always with other girls and texting them, hugging them and kissing them (on the cheek), this is not jealousy I can asure you, and don't you think for one second that it's not your place to ask him about it, if he wants to live that sinlge lifestyle, then he needs to be single, not in a relationship with somebdy, because it can just make you feel awful! I think what you need to say to him is, that you are more than happy for him to go around doing that with other girls, as long as you're allowed to do the same with men. I believe that women have no control over men, and what you need to do is just make them see what it's like, by putting them in the same situation, and I did; it works, I promise.
Good luck, hope I've been helpful :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): He is disrespectful and does not give a damn how it makes you feel,if he did he would stop,he has no intentions of stopping,maybe its time you stopped seeing him
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reader, donnak +, writes (21 September 2010):
hi there! i don't mean to sound apathetic. but honestly! he obvously isn't willing to change. what he is doing is quite disrespectfull of you. And if he doesn't respect you now, he never will. what he wants is a doormat. And if you want to be a door mat that's fine. but, i would highly recommend ending the relationship yourself, and find yourself someone who will respect you for the women you are.
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