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writes: There is everything wrong in this moment in my life. At the last 10 years was an unstoppable downward spiral. What destroyed me greatly.I m unable to give all details, because, its too easy to recognise them.I can tell you generally. Everything is constantly under attack. I need someone to ''diagnose'' my life as ''whole'' as I can not understand how could this go so wrong. I tried therapy, but really it was too much even for the therapist, as it is against common sense. What ever I do, turns crap. My family life, my sex life, my parenting, my marriage, my job , ,my marriage, my money. My health. And it effects my whole family too. They are all effected by this bad luck...Nothing goes right for them, and have horrid accidents and stories... I can't not find the mistake I made , but not even anybody else does. How come all this things never want to turn better? Why am I thinking ,that someone put a spell on me, when I, m an educated logical person? How can I handle this awful challenges? Everybody has a braking point,when just cant do it anymore. Am I weak? Or really cursed with bad luck? Please help me with some good ideas.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Sounds like your having a really bad time. Am sure your not cursed though we all have bad spells from time to time. You need to gain more self confidence as you are very down on yourself and your very negative at the moment. Take time to get to know yourself again and work on being happy. When you get up in the mornings go for a brisk walk it will clear your head and in the evening make sure that you take time out for yourself even if it is only to simply relax in a bath. Start gettin dressed up and going out with your husband and socialise with new people. You dont mention precisely what your health problems are but start taking care of yourself, eat three healthy meals a day drink plenty of water and avoid junk food unless it is for a treat and have regular check ups. Have family days out you can be amazed how much fun they can be.I hope things work out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Firstly you are neither weak or cursed,you are surounded by negative people who`s behaviour seems to have rubbed off on you,surely you must have had good luck in the last ten years its just that bad luck seems to last longer,try being with people who are positive and you to will become positive and this is where you will feel lucky and you will be,happy people think like this all the time and life is so much easier,try it
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