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I don't want to put any pressure on him... help!

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Question - (21 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A friend of mine and his girl broke their relationship off and he is still kinda in recovery, or more he just isn't really interested in anyone. I feel the same way about my ex I broke things off with of many years.

He goes to a college that is two hours away so I don't get to hang with him, but he and I text almost every day, we flirt, we talk about everything!!

I feel he is interested in me, but he lives two hours away at college, and I am interested in him.

I feel sometimes that if i just leave it alone and keep being his friend that he will come around to wanting to be with me, but then i also fear he may not think im interested...

i dont want to put any pressure on him to make him run away... what do i do????

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A female reader, Red591 United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

Red591 agony auntCareful. He may just need a friend during the healing process and saying something could make him back off. I would just say that when he is out of the darkness that you will be there when the sun comes out. Tell him that remaining friends is fine too. This way he can reply without worrying if it will piss you off. I would not bank on something two hours away unless one of you would be willing to move one day. I don't think I know a guy great enough to drive 30 minutes for LOL j/k

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