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anonymous
writes:In the past year I have lost all my friends to university (they are all far away) and generally drifting away/poor effort to stay in contact. Then 6 months ago i found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for months and I ended it with him. When i split with my boyfriend, I felt sorry for myself and moped around for 2 months. Then i went out every weekend and had about 5 guys on the go at once. In between all of this has been one guy who has always been there for me, always listened to my problems and generally been a star. Hes recently asked me to be with him. I feel very vunerable right now because im in lack of friends and have been hurt by my ex, and im also feeling like because im not physically attracted to him, Ill more than likely keep seeing other guys. I dont know what to do. I feel very vunerable and needy for somebody!
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Of course you are going to feel vulnerable, and everyone goes through this at least once in their life. You have been hurt and need time to heal. The worst thing u can do right now is go out and find any guy to make u feel whole again. You want to find the RIGHT guy, so just wait it out, trust me. Right now, you need to spend time with friends, keep your options open, but don't jump into a serious relationship for a while. The wounds from the past relationship seem to be still very new, so just give it time, even though I know it is hard. You will be glad u didnt go for just ANY guy, and were patient for the right guy.
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