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41-50,
*acy_Lucy
writes:We've known each other since we were 9 and 10 years old. He was my first boyfriend when I was 13. I didn't even think of sex then but he gave me my first kiss and we showed PDA. I moved to another city and lost touch. When I was in college at 19 he came back into my life but only as a friend. Once again our lifes went in two different directions until oneday in my mid twenties when he saw me walking home. He stopped his car and got out to talk.From there on we became emotionally and sexually involved.He was a great lover. Our relationship was playful and fun. He once said to me we'll always be in each others lifes even if we should get involved with other people.I know...this almost sound like some fairytale. It's almost as if we were made for each other.We dated for nearly a year and I was happy when I was with and felt sad when he had to go home. Sometimes we'd skip work just to stay in bed together.As time went on my prince charming turned out to be a womanizer, he put his friends needs ahead of mine and near the end of our relationship everything was just a mess. He wouldn't call, he'll reject or not answer my calls. I found pictures and naked video clips of other women on his cell. And the final straw was when his one of his friends told me he was engaged.My feelings were hurt and I know was dealing with a royal ass. Needless to say that was the end. We never officially broke up. I just stopped contacting him and he did the same. About 6 months later as I was leaving work, I heared someone call my name. It was him. He was with his friend who came to pick up his (the friend's) girlfriend. He waved and I waved back then got into the car of a guy who a recently met. We drove off but then I realized a while later they were following us all the way to my place. The next day the friend's gf told me my ex said he wants me back. I brushed it off and didn't even concider the possibility. He tried to call me I ignored it. Since then I saw him once about a year later. We talked. I've forgiven him and can see him without getting angry. He added me to facebook. He inboxed me and said he misses me. I brushed that off. I'm only willing to be friends. His wife (same one who he left me for) removed me from his friend list. She knows me by name only and know I was with him.Months later he added me again...but we never communicated. But a while later i was removed again. He sees my sister sometimes and ask her how I'm doing.I admit I miss him sometimes and I think I would take it bed for old times sake. My question is, will I ever really get over him and if not how can I forget him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): sounds quite like my situation.. it's sticky & draggy, best to cut him off totally from your life. don't even greet if you see him again :
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