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I don't have feelings for my ex anymore but I feel like we should give things another go for the sake of our child....

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Question - (21 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, my problems a little hard....

Basically, I have a child, a 5 month old boy, with my ex. We werent together very long when i fell pregnant and split when i was pregnant. But he still provides for our son and is an excellent father. However, me and him have not got on. Things happened when I was pregnant, which caused us to split, and my feelings towards him drastically changed. It wasnt over anything too bad, we disagreed on a couple of things about money and then he said that he was unsure that the child was his. But now our son is here theres no denying he is his - they look exactly the same!

Me and my ex talk for the sake of our son but we dont get on. In the past couple of months we have had some bad rows and ive said some pretty bad stuff to him. Now my feelings arent so raw and everything has settled down, Im wondering whether me and him should give it another go for the sake of our child. I dont like him like that anymore but if we got together maybe I would start to.Im really lonely being in my flat every night just me and my son. Im 27 and hes 32 and I cant help thinking that we shold just get together.

But, I dont know whether I feel like this because Ive recently found out that my other ex (who I have been in love with for years but our relationships never worked out) has got himself a new girlfriend and has settled down with her.

I dont know what to do!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

What will you do if you meet someone else? just dump him?

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