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Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?

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Question - (21 September 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking for just normal porn, anyway i noticed i was much more aroused at it then normal porn but the funny thing was i ejaculated after about 25 seconds which was really strange, but then afterwards i was a bit disgusted with myself. The funny thing is though the men i see in real life i do not find myself attracted at all in any way. so im not sure if this is just hormones at my age or i might be slightly bisexual

any help would be appreciated

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A female reader, xX_Kitty_Xx United Kingdom +, writes (21 September 2010):

It might just be that it was different to what you normally watch.... Or just your hormones but when you get older you will find out what your sexuality is hope this helps (: x x

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (21 September 2010):

Hi there. It's really hard to say what your sexuality is unless you experiment.

You are probably aroused because of the sexual side of it, not specifically by the homosexual side of it. The fact you got more aroused by the homosexual porn, might just be the "forbidden fruit" aspect - which might be your own aversion to homosexuality. Maybe you can't accept the idea it turns you on.

Sexuality develops over time, perhaps it's just a stage you're going through. It's possible you might find that straight sex and gay sex turns you on (at least as far as porn goes anyway). But the reality might be you would only actually have sex with women. In any case, only time will tell.

It's a thing you will only realize over time. The only way to find out for sure, is to experiment. There's nothing else for it really. If you find over time that you prefer men to women, well then I guess you must be gay. For the meantime anyway, you must not go judging yourself. We are what we are.

It's a case of being honest with yourself, and not pretending to be something you are not. Don't worry about what other people think. It's your life.

Just be true to yourself, and accept you for you really are - unconditionally. Be real and genuine.

Hope this helps you. Take care and best wishes.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (21 September 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIt may be just hormones. It may be an indication. It's really not enough to go on. Its quite possible you're straight. There's legions of straight men and women who find transexual porn to be extremely attractive - more than conventional porn even. It doesn't have to mean anything beyond being a genre of porn that you like.

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (21 September 2010):

misfitschik66 agony auntI'm straight and prefer to watch lesbian porn

i think it has something to do with "thats what you want done to you" maybe not from a girl but in general

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

Hey, I'm female and I get off on lesbian porn when watching with my bf. I'm completely straight but it's the fact that it's different.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

well try porn without the men in iht maybe that way yu will be more attracted 2 the girls so try more girl on girl stuff!

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A female reader, missomac Canada +, writes (21 September 2010):

missomac agony auntHun,

Your young and your hormones are in charge, and that is totally normal! You are going to find that as you mature different things will cause different reactions. You saw gay porn, you were turned on and you climaxed. Does it mean you bisexual? Who knows! But, in time you will know if you are. Weather you are or are not bisexual, your still normal. Don't be disgusted that you were aroused, a lot of straight people get off on gay porn. It's nothing to be ashamed of.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010):

it's normal..

don't be worried. i watch porn of same sex as myself, but i only am attracted to the opposite in person.

it's like a new experience so it's something different and that's why it aroused you so.

imagine it as- you get more turned on by a spuntanious act than one you now is coming...

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