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writes:Can anyone help me please with a quick dating etiquette question? I cancelled a date as I was unwell and now I'm wondering if I should be the one to make the next move and invite him out or if I should I wait to see if he asks me again? I don't want to appear over keen but I'm also worried that he may think I was simply making an excuse not to meet up. Any thoughts?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Well why not give him a call? If he thought you faked being sick and find out you actually were sick he might be really glad to hear from you ;)
Worth a shot in my book.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (21 September 2010):
 If you cancelled the ball is now in your court. If you leave it he will think your not interested and may or may not contact you again.
Just give him a call and arrange another date, you can explain your reason for cancelling over a drink or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi. Thanks for your answers. I agree that he should follow-up to ask how I am but it was only our second date and I just wonder because it is such early days that he may just assume I didn't enjoy the first date and was using this as an excuse. I don't want to look pushy by contacting him but I would really like to see him again.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 September 2010):
If you want to see this guy, yes call him. Though I have to agree with "sexlessintheuk" - he ought to have called and checked up on how you were feeling.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2010):
If you cancelled, you need to make the next move, or he'll think you're not interested and that it was an excuse.
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