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writes:I'm in a complicated situation.When I was 11, My parents passed away in a car crash and their best friends took me and my sister.Their best friends have three boys.One of their boys is about a year and half older than me (I'm now 16), And I have romantic feelings for him, And he has said he feels the same way.I don't know if I should act on these feelings or not, Because we do live in the same house and his parents have raised me for five years. What should I do?
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reader, Cecilia.M  +, writes (26 September 2010):
My Dear young lady, you are dealing with very strong emotions.
Is it possible to talk to the 'mother' of the house?
Sometimes what seems like a huge, impassable obstacle can turn out to be manageable. You wouldn't be doing anything illegal or morally wrong if you pursued a romance with this guy but if you act in secrecy people will feel hurt.
Your foster parents may already be aware of a chemistry between you and their son even if they've never mentioned it. I'm all for naming the elephant in the room and getting things out in the open, give them a chance to have an opinion and perhaps they will be more understanding than you imagined.
I wish you all the best, C.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Oh boy, leave this alone. At least till you are 18 and a proper adult. These kind people raised you up, don't cause them trouble by starting a romantic relationship right under their house with their son. They can and should kick you out if you cannot control yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): There is nothing either legally or morally wrong. You are not related to any of these people in any way.Flynn 24
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