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writes:Well Hi I've got a messy situation I need some help to fix!Let's start at the beginning,At The end of April I just had this dream that basically a big sign I was gay I woke up wondering just thinking it over if o was gay then I typed 'Gay Kiss' into google images and I had an erection but then I typed 'Naked Girls' and nothing happened I didnt feel attracted on any way to them so I looked into it moreand watched videos af guys making out and then I had an erection then I looked at lesbians making out and nothing again so from that moment on I knew was gay.Then I began to become distant I was miles away half the time and i began to become more comfortable with it after time but now it's going to be harder because my friends are starting to watch straight porn and talking about boobs and I feel like telling everyone and being a loner but I want friends that are guys that o way I blend in and I'm shy so I won't make new friends quickly and people keep on saying that I fancy this girl and it annoys me because I'm gay I treat girls nicely because I see girls as friends! Well there's this school councillor and I keep on thinking that I should go see her but I keep on bailing! And how do I tell my friends that im going to see a councillor for a problem I can't really talk about theyll think I'm crazy and need help and besides I can't say I'm gay to no one because it's personal!My family won't be comfortable with this newsMum-HomophobeDad-DissapointedSarah(sister)-Fine with itEllen (sister)-50/50How do I deal with this?
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 It would do you good to see a counselor, who has to know? Leave her a note saying there's an issue you'd like to speak about and politely ask her ensure your privacy about the fact that you're seeing her. When I went to school, I saw a counselor and he simply gave me a pass to give my teachers and I'd go to him during different times. My friends noticed and I said I was taking medication until I was ready to tell my closest ones the truth. Also, you don't have to tell the counselor your problem right off. Talk to her and see how comfortable you are first. You also don't need to tell your parents yet, the counselor can advise as to what to say/do when ready which can be years from now. Your friends talk about boobs? Mine too! lol guys and girls. I laugh. If my lesbian friends talk girls, I have no prob, I can still appreciate female beauty while not attracted. Just like they can say a guy's hot and at the same time, not want him. U dont have to watch porn either.
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