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writes:Me and my ex have had a very weird sort of relationship for the past 5 years. I went out with him and he dumped me for another girl (5 years ago), we didnt speak for a couple of years then he split up with her and we sort of got back together. Then he dumped me again and we didnt speak for a while. Then we seen each other out about a year ago, got talking and were nice to each other! Ever since then, weve said hi when weve seen each other, he added me on facebook and weve just been friendly towards each other. I will admit that each time I saw him there was some chemistry there, sometimes we would even kiss, but nothing more. I did love him alot and I think I stil do.......Anyway, a couple of weeks ago I found out that he had a new girlfriend. And then I saw that he deleted me off facebook!!! I was a bit annoyed but didnt think much of it. Then at the weekend I saw him in a bar with his new gf. As soon as he saw me he started kissing her, hugging her and generally being all over her, but kept looking at me to check if I was watching. He didnt speak to me either. Why would he want to make me jealous? Why would he want to hurt me when its him that dumped me both times? I didnt let it get to me but I just dont get why we cant be friends. I dont care that he has a new girlfriend, I know me and him would never work out.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Ha ha, sad sad boys!!!! I really hope you laughed long and loud at him. If you didn't, make sure you do next time you see him.
I have no idea what's going on in his head, but you really don't need the hassle from it. Let him get on with whatever it is he's trying to do. If nothing else, his gf might wise up to the fact that the incident in the bar was all for show, and that doesn't bode well for him does it?
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