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writes:and I dk if he likes me back. When older ladies see us together, they tell me that he really likes me because his eyes light up and he gives me his undivided attention. Yet, sometimes in his conversations he gives a physically description of the type of girl he would want to date and it's definitely doesn't describe me! He's always talking about other girls. I dk if that's just to throw me off or if because he really does like me but doesn't want to show it.Also, he'll mention to other people that he dates girls all the time (which is a lie). but when it comes to him dating someone, or liking someone, he never comes up to me for advice and he always wants my advice for something. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): Sounds like he does like you. Sounds like his talk is all about him trying to impress you and others.
If you like him and really want to clear it all up, just tell him, "I've gotten to be really crazy about you and I want things to continue, but you're really hard to read. Hearing about things you like in other girls or you talking about dating different girls, kind of sends me a signal that I probably don't want to get attached to you. So, you tell me: do we stop now and stay friends, or do we take it further?"
If he's wishy-washy, he may still be insecure and not know how to answer right away, but he'll come around in a day or two after he thinks about things.
If he admits he's into you, then you tell him, "Good, then stop trying to impress me, just be yourself because you're who I like, all of you!"
If he says you should just be friends, then you know and won't have to try to figure it out anymore.
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reader, Confused Girl96 +, writes (21 September 2010):
No dont do that. never tell a guy you like him. Unless you know for sure. Flirt! All the time. Dont give up... well maybe you should. try going after his bff it worked for me. But then it came and bit me in the butt in the end cause now he likes me but i like his bff. So what ever you do play it safe. Become his friend close friend. invite him over to watch one of his favs or go swimming ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2010): you shld ask him straight out you knoe just tell him i wanna knoe how u feel bout me like if your into me or what then say you cld say yes or no i wont be hurt if u say no cuz well still be tight
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