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writes:Ok me and my gf have broke up about a week ago now we have been togeather for 4 years now and she was a bit diff with me so I askedme: are we still bf and gf or just friends Her: she started cry badly and said friends now she said she still loves me and cares fore but she just dint love me as a bf She has just started collgeg and she has work and her friends she is 16 and I'm 18 I love her to bit I truely want to be with her for the rest of my life. Iv know her scince we were little my best m8 went out with her when she was like 8 and he was 8 aswell then I got with her when I was 14 but I lots my friends over it I don't regret makeing the choose to stay with her coz I adore her so it 2010 and now I have no life for 4 years and 2 friends I never went to collgeg was just like a houses hermint but never ventured out into the wide world but she did bit bye bit bumg stated with me till now About 3 days into the brake up oh and we live 2 doors way from each other I contacted her saying I miss telling her my day and just being with her she make mr happy she was the same we both missed each other so now were are really good friends I said to her don't you still love me life won't to kiss me she was life I'm not sure she just wants to do things with out worry if being unfair one and and wants ne to live me life I will I said I will change make my life batter and stuff and still see her but not as much I said and stuff bit she said no just bestfrirnds I mean we are the best of friends So now it's a week past I still want to kiss her we sew each other for line 5 mins every other day like and have a nice cuddle a close up one and txt every night but she has only told one of her m8 that we broke up we both agreed to keep our pics up of each other and she stool has me like writen over here face book I am so will to get her back becoz I will be their for her even if we saw each oylther once a week I just miss her lots we like sleeper round each others house every night but I Judah want her back I am willing to go sort my life out but I want her init as my gf coz I love her so much can any one help i'm not sure want to make of the situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): So, she has been with you since she was 14, and now she's off to college. It sucks, but it's awful hard to meet and stay with one person since childhood. She probably needs room to grow and discover who she is as a person, as an individual. You should do the same - no matter how hard it hurts. Stay cool and friendly to her, but don't be her weekend F buddy. Let he have her clean break, and the two of you go out into the world. Stay in touch, but as friends only. One day, years from now, the two of you may find each other again. If you look through this board, you will see how difficult it is for people to let go of their first love - especially women. So man up. Go out and experience the world a bit. Stay in touch with her, always be nice, but from a distance. Then, in a few years when she has had a chance to see what other guys are like, maybe you two will find each other again...
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