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writes:i m a 25 yr old, average looking guy. i hv a good physique and m graduate. currently i m doing a readymade garment business and m financially sound. i hv a healthy and nice family. my problem is that i never had a girlfriend, never. i mean since childhood i wanted to hv a girl in my life who loves m and i love her. but never got a chance. i liked some girls but not a single one saw me in that way. i hv girls as friends but no girlfriend. i dont know why?i dont look bad, dont talk bad, dont hv bad habits but still, no one likes m in that way.now situation is that i hv killed my feelings of being loved, i dont talk with lot girls, in all i m losing my self confidence. i used to think so much romantic things but now i m afraid to even think about it? i run away from news of love marriage or anyone talking about it. these things starts an emotional cyclone in my heart and i start thinking why not me? today i got such news and then i ask u for this. i dont know what to do? please help!!
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reader, s/r/b +, writes (19 September 2010):
s/r/b is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni liked both advices but there is some problem.
1)one says dont find love, let love find u!
then what should i do. i m not content in myself. i feel a lot of pain in my heart when i think of my status. i mean i hv just this one dream in my heart from a long long time..!! & i feel really empty!
i dont know how to calm my feelings.?
2) the other says go out & talk to more people(girls) & make some self confidence & in process u may find ur love, but, there is problem in this too...
a) i am a shopkeeper & hv 10am to 10pm timing, no time for these things.
b) i can talk to my customers in that way, it may backfire & its my business, i cant take risk on it.
c) i m a reserved kind of person & it feels awkward to me to go around like that..!
i m stuck..!?!
cant have it cant leave it!!!!
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reader, 0Guest0 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 dont kill your feelings.....dont search love let love search you one day you will get your girl who will love you alot :)
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