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My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and I hate it... what can I do?

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Question - (15 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Me and my best friend have known each other for 8 years and have been best friends since then, she's always been a bit jealous of my other friends and how i look but now ive been in a relationship for 5 months with a boy i know from air cadets and its been going great, we really get on but im starting to think my best friend likes him.

She goes to the same school as him and she texts me in the morning saying that she's sitting on his knee and that he's 'serenading' her, it really makes me upset and im starting to think she's doing it on purpose. She's caused lots of problems with me and my boyfriend. i've tried telling her what she's doing but she thinks I'm being stupid. i really dont know what to do! :(

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A female reader, sizzling1 Nigeria +, writes (16 September 2010):

i think u need to let both of them know that u don't like it. if she's really ur friend, she won't continue flirting with ur guy knowing it upsets u. u have every right 2 feel uncomfortable about this.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (15 September 2010):

Honeypie agony auntWell, I think she actually likes starting drama. Maybe you need to talk to your BF? If she is flirting with him, he can stop it easily.. by not flirting back.

I think she is not being a very good friend.

And maybe.... you need to trust your BF?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (15 September 2010):

dirtball agony auntShe says you're being stupid because she wants you to feel bad so she can keep flirting with him. She shouldn't be sitting on his lap any more than he should be letting her do that. Some of what's written may be a bit of a joke to. Their way of making you jealous. I remember people doing that fairly regularly when I was your age. Thank god we didn't have cell phones!

Your friend isn't being a good friend. Your boyfriend isn't being a good boyfriend. I'd set some ground rules for your boyfriend about what's proper behavior for him with other girls.

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