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female
age
30-35,
*atalie_X
writes:So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year! And we have been friends for like 6 years. We are insanely happy but a few things bother me. He smokes a TON of weed and I'm very against it. I hate it. And also, he is failing out of school and having to move back home which is about 4 hours away. The problem is I can NOT do long distance and he's cheated on me before. I am very happy with him but I'm worried. HELP! What do I do?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 He sounds like a winner. Here's my problem with this he smokes a ton of weed which is an illegal drug, and even though it's a herb, smoked long term will have adverse effects on his brain. Looks like it's already taken into effect since he's failing school. Then he's moving 4 hours away which you can't do long distance, and seeing as there's no trust as to the fact he cheated on you long a LDR will definitely not work in this case. He's not trustworthy, a pothead, unmotivated, and now has a bleak future. This guy will not change, not for himself much less you. So why are you still with him? I suggest you break-up with him because we all know that's where it's heading.
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