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writes:My mom was married to my dad for 14 years. Just less then 2 months ago there is a woman who is eyeing mom and is trying to make contact with my mom.And the other day when mom was at the beach she noticed mom and was looking at mom for long periods of time. My mom makes "NO" contact to her at all.Now I respect that this woman is "GAY/LESBIAN" but why is she hitting on my mom who has been married for 14 years and has 2 kids?Is she trying to lower mom into a divorce to move out and and start a lesbian relationship with my mom?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 September 2010):
 Seriously. Either you're a troll, or you have a very unhealthy fascination with thinking about your mother having sex and people wanting to have sex with her. I'm beginning to think that you may have some issues with wanting to have your mother that you should see a professional about. You are so focused on seeing her naked and having sex with her, even when nothing is mentioned about it by anyone but you.
Why is that such a focus for you?
Talk to your mom, or talk to a councelor, but get help. Please. Search: Oedipus Complex.
I really hope you're just a troll.
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reader, aconrod +, writes (18 September 2010):
aconrod is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActully you have a good point.
Perhaps,JUST PERHAPS that this women did not know that mom was married and she might have thought that mom was a single mother of 2 kids.
That is possable, Actully its very possable.
I know when the group of men saw mom when she was walking home from the store they did yell out to mom making toug
gestures at mom.
So yes they were wanting to have mom for sex but.
But for a women to hit on mom.
I just found it odd and out of place.
I did hear mom before having sex.
But I just find it "very odd" for a women wonting to see and have my mom in her bedroom for sex.
But I think that she did not relise that mom was married and she was wanting to see my mom naked to see what mom looked like with no clothes on or even see what mom looks like wile having sex with another women controling her.
But Yes I think that you do have a good point when you said perhaps that she did not know that mom was married.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 September 2010):
A couple of things. Your story doesn't make any sense. Are you now saying that this woman and your mom actually had an affair? Or is this your fantasy that's blown out of proportion, just like your take on my advice. If I had to guess, it's the latter.
Listen, it isn't up to other people to respect anything about your mom's relationship. For all they know, she is a single mother. It is up to your mom to tell them where they stand if she's approached. It shoulds like she does just that and you need to chill out.
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reader, aconrod +, writes (18 September 2010):
aconrod is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI seen men flip over mom before and I herd men talk about sex to mom and they did get on the wrong side of her before
and I did see a group of men yell out to mom before.
No this is just did not just start happening.
This toke place during my child hood day.
I feel if a person is married then they should "STAY"
deadacated to there married partner and the other who is hitting on the married person should "STOP" and respect that they have kids.
What happend to mom was this women was hitting on my mom out in public in sight were her kids saw it.
I herd mom doing private things in her bedroom when I was a kid but that was out of sight in her bedroom with my dad.
But this women having mom in her bedroom controling my mom
a married mother of 2 with a women having mom naked during sex would be a bit odd hearing this women getting mom off with excitement during sex would be a bit odd.
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reader, raiders +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Aconrod how old are you? As I read dirtball's post I don't see how you can interpreted what he wrote the way you did.
Are you simply bother that your mom has a lesbian friend, do you think gay and straight people can't be friends. Do you feel that the gay person is only interested in getting in the straight friend's pants.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 September 2010):
I'm saying she found your mom attractive, that's why she was checking her out. Then again, she may be a nurse and noticed a mole on your mom's back that she was trying to figure out if she should say something about.
You don't know her intentions, and frankly, they don't matter. Unless she was actively trying to get your mom to come home with her, then someone checking her out isn't a big deal. It has happened before, and it will happen again. You're just noticing it now, that's all.
Talk to your mom. Tell her what you saw and how it made you feel. It may be awkward, but it will be worth it.
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reader, aconrod +, writes (15 September 2010):
aconrod is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I think you answer my question ok.
So what your saying is that she was thinking of taking mom into her bedroom and get mom out of her clothes and see what moms like in the bedroom.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 September 2010):
Hey hey hey, back up the truck. Being gay doesn't lower someone. If I misinterpreted what you wrote, I'm sorry, but that's how it sounded to me.
Now, on to your question. She probably found your mom attractive. Just because someone finds your mom attractive, that doesn't mean your mom is going to cheat or divorce your dad. She may be flattered, and rightfully so. It means she's still got it after 14 years of marriage and 2 kids. As long as your mom isn't out ACTIVELY seeking that attention, you can't control what others do or think.
Did this woman come and hit on your mom? From the sounds of it, she was just checking your mom out. Would you be this upset if a guy was checking out your mom? I check out mom's all the time. It doesn't mean I want to break up their marriage, but an attractive person draws attention.
I think you need to look at why this upset you so much. I also think you should talk to your mom about this and get her perspective.
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