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writes:hey all i want to ask a very diffacult question i am 18 and my gf is 15 turning 16 she is might be pregenet with anothers man kid hu doesnt belive her and since i love her i will take the kid as my own but everytime she gos to guys house to talk about it she gets really aggressive towards me i think the guy is trying to mess with her mind please help me asap Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): maybe you should just let her be able to see if she is pregnant i guess it is a new relationship
since you said it was her ex and that you are dating
but maybe you should just relax. i know it is hard but it will all get better in time
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Don't do it! You are too young! Please run as fast as you can! You will be sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): I agree. Run away. This doesn't sound right. You can be a friend but I'd pass on being a b/f in this situation.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 I'm sorry but my advice is to break up with her. First of all you are 18 while she is 16. I'm am guessing you are more mature then her and she still has alot of growing up to do.
Second, she acts aggressive towards you and it seems like she is not over her ex.
It hurts that you love her but I am sure you will be happier in the long run to move on.
Good Luck!
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reader, romany +, writes (15 September 2010):
 hmmm, this seems very complicated, she is or might be? she is going to ex's, and then gets aggressive toward you.
She may just be worried sick bout being pregnant, so first thing should be to buy pregnancy test, you can get one at Tesco or Asda for as little as £3.50. and Rowlands Pharmacy has the old fashioned ones for £1.50. Once you've established that, you'll know more as to where she is coming from.
Part of me thinks, she may just be using the fact she may be pregnant to have contact with the ex, and the fact she is being horrible to you after is because she isn't getting the response she wants from that ex.
I dont understand how she does not know if she is pregnant or not, unless she is only a few weeks, which leads me to think that your relationship is new or she has cheated on you, either way, your offering huge amounts of yourself, and you really do need to think with your head, rather than your heart.
So find out first if she is pregnant, and if she refuses to have pregnancy test, then I think you have to see it how it is, and that is, that she wants to be with her ex and not you.
I'm sorry, but what she is doing, doesn't make sense, and its making alarm bells in my head.
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