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female
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30-35,
*rittbe1123
writes:so iv been off and on with my boyfriend for about 4 years, we havnt broke up for about a year 1/2 and we have been having sex for about a year 1/2. When we first starting havning sex i was great and i was usualy on top, i didnt worry about doing something wrong and i totaly got the rithum right away, but then i started suffering from anxiety and low selfasteam and i wasnt ontop for a while (couple months) i started getting nervious and feeling like i wasnt gonna be good, i overthink it wayyyyy to much and i can hardly get a rithum. My anxiety hardly comes anymore and my selfasteam has gone up so much! i need help why do i still get nervious when im ontop? how can i get back to my old ways of just enjoying sex .... help me!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): I never understood why some women fret over their technique with certain positions. As long as you get him off, most any guy wont care. I'm sure you are good at something other than cowgirl, so why dont you work that? Has he told you you aren't good on top or something? Is that his favorite position? Why do you think you're bad? Honestly, not every woman has the physiology to do all positions well.
Get into HIM, not you. I think most guys are easier to get off, so they generally wont care about perfect technique.
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