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Boyfriend gives me the impression he is disinterested

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Question - (15 September 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been with boyfriend for a year and a half. I really love him but sometimes I get so irritated with because he always seems disinterested when I talk to him on the phone. He has no enthusiasm. In general he has quite low confidence and he has a problem with smoking weed so I don't know if that is the reason behind his lack of interest. He does work all through the week and always says he's tired.

Whenever I hang out with other boys I realise how much more fun they are and maybe I deserve something different and someone who I can ave long conversations with.. Urgh I'm just really confused!

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A female reader, OhGetReal United States +, writes (16 September 2010):

OhGetReal agony auntThe effect weed has on a regular smoker is loss of interest in sex, lack of motivation, lack of ambition, and the desire to stay home and smoke more weed. It also makes you tired after the days work.

Yeah, he sounds like a bundle of fun. They say the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

So what are you expecting out of him, out of this relationship?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2010):

You are with a bit of a loser. He smokes weed and seems disinterested. You know very well there are better guys out there. Find one of those.

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