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writes:I have been in a relationship for just over a month. I'm 17 and he's 21, we live three hours away from each other, and seen one another three times, but talk all the time. I really like him, I think? =/ The only problem is i feel that he is too serious, hes already telling me that he Loves me all the time, that he wants me for ever and has already admitted that hes started planning an engagement. I enjoy being with him but feel things are going too far too quick, but i dont want to hurt him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (16 September 2010):
 Run the hell away. People that display this behaviour have serious emotional issues, and in coming on that strongly and being so 'honest' with their feelings hope to gain your trust, only so they can use it to their advantage later.
Bruising his ego a little should never come before your own comfort, no matter what the situation. Gently tell him how you feel, let him know you'd like to take things slower. If he ignores this and does what he likes regardless, you need to find a new boyfriend.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Woah nelly! Usually it's the women who are rushing. It's only been a month for pete's sake, you hardly know each other. You think you like him? Well sweetie if he's turning out to be not your cup of tea throwing out the commitment card and you're only 17 then you should tell him you're better off as friends. Or use the distance as an excuse if you want to soften the blow of a break-up. However, if you don't want to throw in the towel just yet, then communicate and tell him to slow down he's moving way too fast for your likings. You guys have all the time in the world there's no need to rush..stop and smell the roses.
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