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writes:Ok so heres the thing, I'm 13 turning 14 soon, and I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and we kinda didnt use a condom... YES I KNOW MAJOR STUPIDITY!! but we werent planning on it happening, but it did, and he says he didnt cum inside me, he says he took it out before he could, but im still super scared that i'm pregnant, but my periods not for another 3 weeks, is there anyway i can know if im pregnant before that... ive been scared ever since it happened and every time i think about it i get butterflies in my stomach and then i start freaking out and thinking that its not butterflies and that its pregnancy pains or something... any advice??
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reader, lainey23 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 No offense, but maybe that fear will help you NOT have sex or be more careful the next time. You're way too young to be worried about bringing a life into this world. I work in an ob/gyn office and see young girls who are pregnant or with an awful disgusting STD all the time. So, just remember that when you want to have some "fun" with a boyfriend and have careless sex. There is a lot more that can come with it than just an orgasm. It only takes one slip up to ruin your whole life. Please be careful!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Sit back and wait for another 3 weeks. Thats all you can do. And buy some condoms and be better prepared for the next time of course. Also read up on contraceptives, sex in general, how babies are made and sexually transmitted desises. Now that you are sexually active you need to know all this information so you know what is out there to better protect yourself.
Never have sex with someone before they have been tested. And always use a condom unless the guy has been tested and you are on birth-control.
Theres something called the emergency contraception as well: http://ec.princeton.edu/emergency-contraception.html
Read up about it. If you knew about this contraceptive before you had sex you could have taken it and wouldn't have had to worry. But, better to know it late than never.
Also understand that in the case that you are pregnant, you will need to see your doctor. If you are wondering about abortions your doctor will give you the information you need about it, and also about pregnancy. You will need to see your doctor shortly after you find out you are pregnant (if you are at all), since you can not wait for too long to have an abortion. Again, it is best to be well-informed before making any decisions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Darlin i know excatly what you are going through and freaking your self out is not the answer often when you are nervous about pregancey you can delay your period it has happened to me a couple of times you can only get pregant between the 10-15 (actually the 11-14 but i extand it only if you have regular periods ) after the last day of your period if you had sex during thoses days with a condom and he did cum inside you then you may want to take a pregancy test a week after the day you have sex try and focus on something else but stop freaking yourself out if you plan on haveing sex again get on the pill or buy comdoms to avoid the mental trama. But i think its just butterflies
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Well there could be a chance you're pregnant. He may not have ejaculated inside but pre-cum contains sperm as well which is more than enough to get you pregnant.
All you can do is wait for your period to come, try not to stress yourself out with worry though as this could actually delay your period and make you even more worried. There are some pregnancy tests that can be taken about a week before your period is due.
To prevent future scares like this make sure that both of always carry some condoms with you or get yourself on birth control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Hi dear
You are only 13 years old soon to be 14 and you are still young. If you dont want to be pregnant you should use protection or be on birth control. At the same time I suggest you buy a pregnancy test to find out whether you are pregnant or not. Next time dont make the same mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): The only way to find out is to buy a pregnancy test. I suggest you go and buy to find out whether you are pregnant or not.
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