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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bf and I broke up a month ago and we were going out for 2 years! we broke up because we were bickering about the stupidest things too much (like what movie to watch or where to eat). We ended up talking last week and decided to get together last night. First of all the night before last he texted me apologizing for being mean to me and that he cant wait to see me! This meant so much because I didnt say anything before this! he came to me on his own to tell me. So he drove me to starbucks where we were laughing and flirting the whole time. We sat and talked about school and random every day things that have been going on and about him and work and bicycling and what not. We sat outside and talked for hours! we were laughing and enjoying it, then somehow the topic of boys came up and he got very quiet and stopped looking at me and I told him that if he wanted to ask me about that topic that he can! so he asked and I told him that I haven't done anything sexual with anyone and he smiled and said he felt so sick before I said that! so he felt better and then I asked him and he told me a girl kissed him and she stopped her and said he cant because he isnt over me at all and is having a really hard time with this and and that feels guilty! A tear ran down my face when he told me this, and my stomach dropped. he said he would feel the same exact way and he was soo sincere! he said he felt and still feels so guilty for that night. it was a little off after that, i was just not in a good mood so i was quiet. i asked him what he thinks is going to happen with us like if we're going to stop talking and what not. he said he really hopes we can talk more and keep in touch and be friends. i told him idk and he stopped talking and i asked what was wrong and he said he was just so hurt that i dont want to talk more. i told him that if we are going to be just friends then i cant do that right now, i said i can do casual talk now and then. he felt better and we talked more and more. it was getting really cold so we went back to his car where the night began to get MORE AMAZING! He pulled me back to him when we were walking and hugged me close and tight for the longest time! we got in the car and i started crying (i told myself i wouldnt but i couldnt help it and i told him that but he said its okay) he held me for a good 10 min while i cried and thats when he poured out his feelings to me! BEFORE I DID! this meant alot! he was saying how much me misses me and then I asked if we are over for good. he said he doesnt think so! he said that if we keep talking and feelings are still there and if they stay like that for awhile then we can talk about getting back together. he said we need to continue to figure things out and he hopes we can work this out! he kept calling me babe and he was happy that i am still wearing the necklace he gave me. he told me he hasn't and wont get rid of anything of mine and my stuff is still in the place that i left it at his house! Our pictures are still displayed on his desk and he said he thinks about me more that he probably should! he said he thinks about me and all the good times we had together and how much he misses that! he turned to me and said i really want to kiss you right now, and he did! we made out for like 30 min! it was so passionate and amazing! i'm hoping and praying to God that this will bring us back together, that after how good last night went that hes going to think about me more than ever and want me back! he drove me back to my car and walked me to the door, he hugged me for such a long time and i was embracing every second of it. he kissed me and said we'll talk real soon! when i got home he texed me flirty some more! i was so happy! I'm hoping and praying we will get back together, not in weeks because i know we have to work on things and make sure we are going to be okay next time, but maybe in a month or two! we can talk and keep this going and like he said, if feelings are still there then we can talk! for him to come out and tell me all of this before i even brought it up means the world to me. hes not the type to wear his heart on his sleeve and he did last night! so i know hes telling me the truth and also he would never ever lead me on! hes definatly not that guy. im so happy and excited to see where this goes for us two. i know i left him with A LOT to think about and an amazing feeling when he was with me. is there anyway i can move this faster so that we can get back together sooner than we said? is what he said meaningful for a guy? is there anything else i can do? I want him back so what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2010): When a man talks about his feelings such sincerely it really means a LOT. Men usually do not like to talk their heart like that, it means that you're the most important thing in his life.
Just talk with him, if you feel the same, you two will definitely be back together soon.
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