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male
age
41-50,
*arry Boyd
writes:Lady's Jealousy question?K. I work at this restaurant, and I have a regular that comes in very frequently. She has come accross as showing interest in me, but as a server I don't know what to do because it may be innocent flirting. I bought her drinks a few times, and she even left me a hint that I should text her sometime, but I was busy and didn't have the opportunity to ask for her number because I saw her in passing during a busy time. Well, a few days ago she came in with another guy instead of her usual girlfriends. She didn't make eye contact with me, and she looked as though she was having a great time. She could have gone to other places since the city is saturated with restaurants. Do you think she may have been trying to make me jealous? I hope she was, but I'm worried that she is into this guy and I blew my chances never asking her out.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 It could be nothing as in she is a frequent customer and that is her favorite restaurant. Or she could have felt snubbed by you last time not asking for her number so she chose to bring in a male stand by to give the illusion she's moved on.
Really it could go either way, but I'm going to go with the latter...I suggest asking for her number the next time you see her dining, chances are this guy was a friend or someone she's seeing and they're not official so in my opinion you still got a shot!
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