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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and known each other for a long time on the internet before meeting up on 14th of august 2009. We broke up yesterday because of me, i was aruging with him because he never called me when he said he would and didn't get in contact with me in anyway since 20 past 3 to like half 7 on facebook. He said he was helping his dad, and i stupidly said i dont think its working out, and then blah blah blah then after a while i go you dont really try to get us back in a relationship do you.. then he goes look im sorry im not being harsh or anything but i just dont think i love you that much anymore, im falling out of love with you. so i said fine ok its ok, (really it wasn't) now we remain friends. Whilst we was speaking afterwards he called me babe twice... and i askeed him to call me later on, and he never did, So my question is.. how can i get him back to fall in love with me? pretend i dont care and never text/call him, or just fight for him and tell me how much i love and want him back?? Thanksss x
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reader, Biancaaa.x. +, writes (15 September 2010):
Biancaaa.x. is verified as being by the original poster of the question he called me, and after he said he had to go, he told me he loved me, and i said dont say that you'll set me off :( and then he goes sorry bad habit babe, then after we spoke somemore he said he had to go again, i told him i loved him and he said he loved me too, and im seeing him on friday, and hes saying theres a chance of be being with him cuz he said he knows when he sees me he will probably just fall back in love with me, Thanks for replying x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 September 2010):
You can't make him love you anymore. That's the point. His whole reaction was his way of saying that it's over and has been for some time. He didn't just fall out of love with you yesterday. This is something that has been happening for some time. And yesterday, when you said it wasn't working out and that he wasn't interested, he came out and told you it was over. Worse still, you said that it was fine. You gave him the green light to end it, and he did. He won't come back. The thing you have to understand about men is that we are very literal. We take it all literally. The moment you said those things, he took his chance to end it and did. This guy will not be coming back.
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reader, Biancaaa.x. +, writes (15 September 2010):
Biancaaa.x. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah but he says a lot of things horrible sometimes when we argue, worse than that... but i just want ways to know how to make him love me even more.. we are so outgoing and we are sooo happy when were together, just most times we argue when were not together :/ pleasee reply
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 September 2010):
You can't. You're not reading the signs here.
You claimed he wasn't getting in contact. If he wasn't, then he was already losing interest.
You then phoned him, and even after him telling you he was helping his father, you suggested it wasn't working out. He didn't fight at all, he just agreed and ended it. In other words, he wanted to end it and you gave him that moment.
When you asked him to call, he didn't.
Basically, he's not interested anymore. It's just the way it is. You can't make him fall in love, whatever you do. If you ignore or pretend not to care, he'll take no notice. If you fight for him, he will either think you're desperate, or will just say that it's over.
I think you need to be moving on. What you had is gone.
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