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writes:I've been thinking about telling this guy that I like him and I want to get to know him more. We've only known each other for a few monthsHowever, in the past I have been nervous about telling guys that I like them due to the fear of rejection and embarrassment. I've thought of reasons as to why he may be interested: When we met he made a lot effort to talk to me and we spoke all day, every day. We have slept together, he even got in touch the next day; after that was when he started to flirt and was subtle. Last time I saw him was 2/3 weeks ago when I left home for uni, a get together with friends was arranged and he said he would show up even though he had other things going on that day. I later told him that I hope to see him soon and he appreciated the comment. Plus, we haven't know eachother for that long so I still have hope.Throughout the time of knowing him, I've tried not to be overwhelming and constantly bombarding him with messages everyday but at the same time, I sometimes get worried that by doing this he may lose interest. I haven't spoken to him since I saw him either.Is this worth pursuing?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 You've not seen him for 2/3 weeks is a long time for two people who care about each other not to see each other. I'ts early days, maybe he's not thinking as seriously as you about this. You can go with the flow and wait for him to get in touch, but it will be up to you then to decide how long you will wait for that to happen.
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