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writes: Ok, i hope this is explained clearly enough to make any sense. A guy friend of mine, who used to be a "FWB" sort of, slept with me a few months ago and he's not single. Now i know he wants to do this again, he flirts etc... which i won't do. This part is confusing, we were online on a sat night, and he said "i don't see you enough" i didn't reply and he went offline. The next day i was checking my inbox messages and he'd sent me a message at 1AM saying "hey my number is ______ call me xxx" now, i asked him why he didn't just text me his number and he said he'd lost it because he has a new phone BUT why send it at 1AM on a sat night, when he was in town and he'd spoken to me earlier that night so could have given it to me then. I'm thinking he sent it at 1AM so i'd see it and call him for "fun". After this i realised that it was stupid of me trying to be friends anymore so i said "you don't have to see me if you don't want to" i thought he'd maybe agree that he didn't want to but he said "i know i don't HAVE to see you but i LIKE seeing you". I just think him sending me his supposed new number at 1 in the morning is a bit suspicious or am i paranoid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. I was pretty sure i was right about him just wanting me for one thing but just wanted to hear other peoples opinions. I'm trying to distance myself from the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Sorry, honey, but it sounds like this guy is trying to use you as a booty call. Credit to you for having enough self respect to hold off and try to prevent it, though, we don't see that enough these days.
Seriously, though, as a rule: if he's not single and he's trying to get into your pants, he isn't good news. After all, if you were in his girlfriend's shoes you'd feel like crap. Hold out for a guy who wants you emotionally as well as physically.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 No you are not being paranoid it does sounds suspicion and you need to be totally clear with this guy, tell him under no circumstances are you going to sleep with him again, you dont want to be seen as stealing boyfriends do you? Its not nice so dont do it unless he is single, make sure this point is clear to him and if he still wants to hang out with you then if its what you want go for it, just stand your ground with him.
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