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female
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36-40,
*eacock
writes:I have been loving one of my best friends, both of us didn't cross our limits) for 7 years. he is all to me but we felt that we cannot convince our parents so we decided to be good friends. suddenly lot of distractions in my life. before 2 years i met with a bitter experience. one of my tution masters compelled to have sex with him when i was in his place. no one was there. 40% he enjoyed, but i didn't allow. i didn't get any feelings for him. after that i was in that guilty feel (someone have touched other than my guy) i didnt like to meet any person who are new. i was ashamed to meet my best friend.After 7 months of this incident, i met a guy who was too friendly, first i didnt allow, then i started sharing things, one time he asked me to meet him and suddenly he showed his way in tempting me with sex, at that i didnt allow, finally he asked me are you happy? i cried and said am not interested in having sex with anybody. hereafter please dont call me regarding this. if you speak some thing healthy I am happy I said. at the same time I met this guy when I joined as atele caller. after that I left my job and stayed at home nad again I searched job after 7 months. again I joined as a tele caller (due to my situation I m here). here now am facing again lot of problems, have to speak to lots of guys, all of them are flirting??? How to overcome and start a new life???
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 You need to be more assertive and say 'No' to the men very strongly. It's your body, it's your choice. The men on the other end of the phone can say what they want, they can flirt all they want. Don't give them any details of where you live. If it upsets you what they say, then report them to your manager. Avoid situations where you will be alone with a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Hey don't let anyone to take advantage of you. At the same time, if it's not possible for your best fren and you to be together, think it's destiny because it seems like you don't want to oppose your parents. And about your job, every job has a value, be firm and don't let anyone think they can manipulate you. Try to get other functional job if you don't like ur current job. You have a future and definitely you don't want to have regrets. Wait for the right guy, don't let ur fears let you down.
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