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writes:i m 20 yrs old and i propesed a gal of age 22 she was my senior in colldge...after many propses atlast she says yes to me..we were in relationship..and happyli spended time togeder..late night talks,movies,long drives..we spend a very happy time..but after 25 days she msg me and says that she has no feelings for me..and she doesnt love me anymore....i dont kno wt to do now.i m quit serious for her....... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (9 October 2010):
Hi there. Is she the first girl you went out with?
Even if she isn't, you are both very young and as happy as you said you both were, you need to know each other for a lot longer than 25 days to think about getting married.
Is there some kind of hurry? Why do you want to get married so soon after meeting?
You have plenty of time to consider getting serious with anyone.
It's possible that you both wanted different things. You thought that you were ready to settle down, but perhaps she wasn't.
All things in life happen for a reason. It seems that this wasn't the right time for marriage to happen.
Over time, you will probably see what that reason is. Perhaps you will travel, or move from where you live now.
Sometime over the next year or two (or less), you are going to probably meet many young ladies who you will get to know well and will like a lot more than her. As strange as that may seem, it is true.
Yes, you will be sad for a little while, but that's only temporary.
As one door closes, another one opens. This is so, so true. Over time you will see what I mean.
I sincerely hope this is helpful to you. Take care and best wishes.
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