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anonymous
writes:Hi I'm 17 and in an LDR, I would just like to ask if anyone else has ever been able to bear weeks apart, because it's starting to make me so sad. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): It is very sad.I know.It's hard to bare.Just know that when you hear from your love again you'll be happy.Have something to look forward to.Write a love note or poem and give it to him/her.I always do!and oh god,what i get back is f^cking lovely. Makes your heart pound, cheeks red, smile uncontrolably, maybe even giggle.Week,days or months or even years the wait is totally worth it, i promise.
hope ive helped you. xoxo
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reader, Emancipator +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Why not focus on how to make the time when HE or SHE arrives back, as perfect as possible? Plan out the time youll eventually have together, to try new and exciting things. Stuff that challanges you both, yet ultimately brings you closer as a couple. Stuff that films are made of, or indeed great memories... picnics in the wilderness... ending with a camp fire cuddle; gazing into their eyes below the stars before drifting off to dream of them?..... but maybe im a hopeless romantic.
LDR's are definitely hard to overcome. I suggest you both, commit to any possible chance to shorten the gap between yourselves, physically or otherwise. Surprise phone-calls, emails and texts can work wonders when one of you is going through a particularly tough day. Gifts and hand written letters (sprayed with your scent) are particularly arousing to one's emotions. Its all about keeping that LOVE you have alive and burning, dont ever lose sight of the goal, to eventually be happy together. Dont lose your appreciation of your significant other, just because of the hard hitting complications of long distance. You still love them, rather their kissing you, or flying to mars right?... Its just loving an astronaut is harder. Josh.
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