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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've always been kind of disappointed with the results when I masturbate. I watch or think about something to put me in the mood and can get to what I think is an orgasm through manual clitoral stimulation only (because I'm not comfortable fingering myself just yet). I mean, I feel like the sensations from what I'm doing get more intense and then I can kind of feel pulsing or contracting (or whatever it is) when I hit my peak. And it does feel good, but it's nothing mind-blowing! I know some people simply don't have orgasms that last very long, but it sucks because from what I've heard, female orgasms can be pretty intense and pleasurable. I try to keep stimulating while the orgasm is happening but the sensations still die off pretty quick. Is it possible that I just have weak, short orgasms, or are there techniques to prolong/enhance what I'm feeling?
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (30 October 2010):
Straightalker, you just think g-spot orgasms are better coz you've never had one. They're the same.
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reader, StraightTalker  +, writes (13 October 2010):
Don't worry this is normal! I am EXACTLY the same! I've been masturbating and sexually active for years and I have NEVER experienced an intense orgasm alone or with a partner. They last around 2 seconds. That's the clitoral orgasm for u lol!
The big intense orgasms are G spot orgasms. If you dont know what a g spot is then google it but don't worry if you can't find it, I have been trying for years and have never found mine.
At least you can orgasm one way or another, some woman can't orgasm at all!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Well this sounds completely normal when you are masterbating, when you are being sexual with a partner this usually intensifies it so much more.
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