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writes:Hey, well i was bicurious and i fooled around with a girl for the fisrt time, I really enjoyed it but now after its over i feel wrong and "dirty". What can i do to make this feeling go away? I dont understand why i enjoyed it well i was doing it but now feel very bad about it. Does that makes sence? I just want this feeling of "dirtyness" to go away. Thanks for any thoughts on it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Could this be something to do with perceptions of the thing rather than the thing itself? You say you enjoyed it, and if that's the truth there's no reason in the world you should feel dirty.
You don't say if the experience made you want a repeat performance. If not, like petinal said, 'adventurous' is the key word. If you do, maybe the feeling you mean is more worrying about accepting that part of yourself than the act.
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reader, misLadYd..  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 if you enjoyed yourself then thats good.i think you can forget about it if you dont think about it a lot.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Just see it as been 'adventurous' and not 'dirtyness'. Put your mindset to that and you will be able to put it down to experience. You've gone where a lot of women are curious about. You've got it out of the way, so now you can move on with your life. If all else fails, try to laugh it off. I'ts all about what's in your head that you are trying to cope with and really there's only you that can make you feel better.
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