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writes:hello everybody , thanks for the time you re spendin on order to give me some advise ,here is my problem , im in a LDR for a long long time , and its been ages since i didnt see my gf, but lately i just cant seem to stop thinking about her, i mean i litterally think about her non stop, from when i wake up till i sleep , every single second shes in my mind :S and its driving me crazy coz then i start to have these thoughts like what is she doing , where is she , with who , stuff like that , she loves me so much and would never cheat on me but the thing is i cheated on her a few times but i never told her coz i dnt wanna lose her :S !! but like i said the fact that im thinkin about her every single second is really drivin me crazy believe me guys I REALLY CANT STOP THINKIN ABOUT HER !!!!i really need your opinions about this , im not sure whether its normall or not but its too much really thnx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Hmm..if it's meant to be,it will be.sounds like you're confused.why not think about it,if you think you love her then tell her everythin.you've said she loves you,then love doesn't judge.
Just tell her,then you'll feel better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Sorry, but you can't care that much about her if you "cheated on her a few times". Sounds like you are infatuated not in love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): Hi!
Honesty is very important in a relationship, but really, I wont tell her. It only hurts.
Why dont you just call her up, saying something lighthearted?
If she is still in love with you, then you two have a chance.
BUT stop cheating!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 It could be the guilt that has finally sunken in, or a thought that triggered your passionate feelings for her which would explain why she seems to flood your thoughts every second.
But I really think you should tell her that you cheated on her, just to rid yourself of the guilt that may plague you or IS plaguing you. That is the only explanation I can give other than, perhaps you really love her.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): don't wanna be that negative person but, hey you did say that you cheated on her right?
OK buddy, here's the deal, you're probably thinking of her because your unconscious sources are letting you know that she's into something. She found somebody else or is simply cheating on you. LDR are hard to pursue. Good luck
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