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writes:Dear cupid, so I wrote several times on your website, and I would like to thank everybody for the help that you acquired me. So my story is like this I’m with my gf 3 years…and we have a problem I’m on 4 year of university and I’m on this program Erasmus…I travel a lot. So this year me and my gf we have kind of a distance relationship. I love my gf, and she loves me maybe we plan after university to be together (we lived already as an experiment for 1 year).But my question is that, as we talk each day on Skype with web cam my gf proposed to seduce me, masturbating and touching herself in front of the camera, and asks me to do it also to turn her on .I’m a bit confused,because its really delicate not to spoil the moment.……. Well I had lots of gf (their were only adventures) but this one is love for sure and don’t want to spoil this intimate moment. And I’m a bit surprised BC she is really shy, and I don’t know really how to react. So what do you think? I’m really embarrassed to write and ask for help in such a situation, I saw here you have far more important life problems…
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reader, luter1 +, writes (10 October 2010):
luter1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your response, but i think i didn't write what i wanted, in fact it's not that i'm shy, i'm not....and yes i would mike to do some crazy stuff....just wanted to ehre some experience from you maybe you had such things,and did it go well....
Thanks again for your answers
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Dont be embarressed, well are you not comfortable doing this? I understand that your girlfriend is shy but shy obviously feels very comfortable with you and plus am sure she is missing the physical side of your relationship so therefore she wants to do this to keep things spiced up. You should be happy that she is taking this step and dont worry about it messing up your relationship it will only make things better then the next time you both get intimate with each other, but if you dont feel comfortable doing this sort of thing then you need to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. goodluck
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reader, Natalie:)  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 I'm in a LDR and everynow and then we do get carried away on skype, if your turned on tel her hat your imagining happening so you can dirty talk and then ask each other to do stuff. Just go for it!! There is no need to be shy she's seen it before!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): okaay, as a girl, I think that shes getting a bit ahead of herself and needs to slow down and talk about it. If you dont want to do it, simple, Don't. Talk to her and say that you dont feel right doing it but if you wnt to get intimate, make it special with her, not via the internet, the internet is a cheap way to get pleasure. And in all honesty, that is just, yuck.
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