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writes:I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He cooks me dinner, sends me messages saying sweet dreams almost every night and i'm pretty sure he told me the other night while i was half asleep that he "really likes me". I'm crazy about him but haven't wanted to say anything in case it's too much too soon. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): Thankyou both for your advice it's much appreciated. I havent been a part of the dating scene in forever so its nice to get advice on things i have no clue about and to feel alot calmer about how things are going (knowing that its a normal thing)
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (9 October 2010):
Hi there. You are right in not telling him how you feel just yet.
You say you "think" he said he really liked you, the other night when you were half asleep. But in case you aren't sure, don't ask him if he did say it - in case you only dreamt it. Because if you did ask him, and he didn't say it - or doesn't want to say he did - then it will be very awkward for both of you. So for that reason, avoid saying anything just yet. In fact, pretend it didn't happen just to be safe.
His actions generally, would give you a good indication as to how he feels. The way he treats you, how he talks to you, his tone of voice. These are all signs.
So just leave saying anything to him at all for the moment. Eventually he will say those words again to you, but he will do it when you are completely awake.
What you heard him say, probably did happen, but he said it then because he's shy about expressing his feelings - the way most men are.
Hope this helps you. Take care and best wishes.
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