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writes: I broke up with my girlfriend few months ago. I made many attemps at reconciliation, but non of them work. FINALLY I GAVE UP. She has cut all contacts with me. She has even changed her phone number. She never reflected on my emails which i recently wrote her. She never tries to contact me. I still love her. I keep on dreaming that one day she will come back to me. Please tell me, what am i supposed to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): Forget her. She's obviously "forgotten" you. Trust me, I've been in this situation before, I know what she wants. By holding onto a memory, you're only making it harder for yourself, and also for her, if you keep trying to contact her. If she came back to you now simply because you begged, neither of you would be happy because she wouldn't really want to be with you. It sounds harsh, but it's the truth. I'm sorry. I wanted my ex to forget me. I prayed to God everyday that he would stop calling/emailing me. I didn't go so far as to change my phone number, so I had to deal with every call, every voicemail. Finally, after a month of that, he gave up. And you know what? I'm happy. I'm happy to move on, to forget, to start over. And I've found someone who's much better than my ex. He's just a friend for now, and only time will tell whether or not that will ever change. Either way, he's a much better friend than my ex ever was. I'm hoping you'll find someone too.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 She will not seem special anymore once you find a girl who actually likes you back - or once you learn to be happy as a single man. Put her out of your mind and don't give her any more control over your feelings than she deserves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): I think she is disappointed with me, after what she had been through because of me. That's why she ain't replying or trying to contact me. I guess, she needs some breathing space. After she has some time away from me, she would want to talk with me again or maybe she would like to meet me. I haven't contacted her from the past couple of months. I really wanted to but i won't. Am i doing the right thing?
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Just stop,girls hate guys like that.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (9 October 2010):
 I really hope that she does come back to you one day. xxx
Why not write her ONE more email telling her that you dream of it, and could she at least say soemthing to you. It really depends on the nature of your break up too. Write to her telling her exactly how you feel. ALos, try writing to her from a new email address - she will be more likey to open it this way. If you don;t get any response - then maybe give up - as hard as it is. xx I mean, what more can you do? alos, you need to work out if you really wnat her bavk, or if you want her back just because she has gone. We all want what we can't have. All the best of luck. xxx
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reader, petina1 +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Reading between the lines, she doesnt want you back. The only thing you can do is to remember the good times and move on. Find other interests in your life and find a woman who really appreciates you. If you don't stop contacting her she will think you are some kind of bunny boiler.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Move on with your life, because she already did. I don't know why you guys broke up, but people come and people go from our lives and we have to deal with it. If you've done something wrong in this relationship, think of what you did and never make the same mistake again, learn from your own experience. The same goes for her.
It's easier said than done, but these are life's UPs and DOWNs. Face them, get over it, there are many other girls in your way :)
Good luck!
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