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writes:I am 29 and in a serious relationship of about 18 months and we live together. It has been a good so far but if im honest not great with many ups and downs and bad times. We have just come out of 4 counseling sessions due to her being unable to cope with my being friends with my ex of 3 years ago. Things seem to have been better but recently during my daily routine I see a girl who captures me, as sad as this sounds Ive not even said hello to this girl but we look at each other almost everytime and the excitement and rush is more than ive ever felt with my current girlfriend. What does this mean, I pride myself on my morals but I cant get this girl out of my head... please help.
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reader, Adrian81 +, writes (10 October 2010):
Adrian81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I think a combo of all that you've said is right. In summary its nothing to do with this other girl, I have to wise up about how I feel, make decisions and live by them. Either I'm taking my current relationship seriously or Im not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): I'ts called LUST. Morals or otherwise, humans feel this all the time.
What shows us who we are as people, is how we deal with it. The proper man enjoys the feeling but leaves it at that and goes back to his girlfriend.
Flynn 24
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 sorry i just cant side with you on this. you are benig totall unfair to your partner.
you say your serious but your looking at others.
you cant have your cake and eat it too.
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