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writes:hi, i have a question i lost a person that i totally love..but i really want to get the person back, im doing the no contact..its been 4months since we been apart,i try to talk to the person but nothing works.?? should i wait more?? i know the person still loves me..but i dont know what to do.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): Don't give up. Keep trying to reach the person. Actions speak louder than words. Maybe the person needs assurance that you are genuinely his or hers. Don't snooze or else someone else will take what's yours. Call, email, send letters or cards. Prove your love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): If you love the person and the person still loves you then quit with the game and tell the person like yesterday before too much damage is done or even trust destroyed. What are you dragging your feet for?? For someone else to replace you?? Call the person like yesterday.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontanx for the advices..i take them all i think ima take some of this options :)
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reader, Lanayi  +, writes (9 October 2010):
Are you doing the NC for 4 months already? Many "Gurus" and Ebooks out there claim that you should do NC for 3 weeks and then contact them again. I have to say it REALLY depends on the break up. Personally I think 3 weeks are to short of a period. If the contact you, it's ok.
Ive been broken up for 6 months now (3 of it he kept on calling me) so we had NC for 3 months then. Still he is very hurt.
If the person is very hurt or non responsive: DONT panic.
Give them time. They need to heal too, a break up affects both.
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reader, rcn +, writes (9 October 2010):
 Give them time. If it's going to happen, it will. Without further history, how you broke up, etc. I don't have much more for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010): The only way you will ever get the person back will be by being totally honest with the person about your love for the person and what kind of relationship you want with the person. How do you know the person loves you? If you are sure that the person loves you and you love the person than waht's the problem? Ego? Pride? Regret is unnecessary. Call the person before it's too late.
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