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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Everytime I get upset or sick she tells me to deal with it! What makes her this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, all. I've been with my current girlfriend for about 16 months (same girl as my last question). She's begun pressuring me pretty hard to get engaged, but I have one big (in my opinion, anyway) roadblock to that happening. In a nut-shell, I guess I still feel like it's ... (409 words)

My ex boyfriend who cheated on me is back after almost a year apart. Has he changed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Its been almost a year since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend and all the sudden he's started calling and texting me again. We were together for 4 years, which were a mixture of good times and bad. The reason we broke up was because he cheated on me and out right admitted to it ... (271 words)

My boyfriend is not interested in having sex with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you seduce a man who has gone off sex? I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years but our relationship is on/off in nature as I spend half of my time away for my studies. I think this affects our sex life as he takes a while to get used to me again and doesn't desire ... (189 words)

I like my best friend's twin brother. Should I date him or just admire from afar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - um i really really like this guy lets call him orange. orange is really sweet and nice. execpt hes my best friends brother see there twins and he noes i like him and he sort of likes me back and idk wat to do.my question is should i go and ask him out or just still think hes ... (85 words)

I don't think I'm gay but I want to be with my friend who is a girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im writing this to ask for advice and to also tell someone how im feeling because im literally driving myself crazy thinking about things and worrying and somehow just writing this and telling strangers how im feeling feels like such a weight off my shoulders. sorry its so ... (531 words)

I am attracted to my teacher and I'm very confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm attracted to my teacher!? I know that there is a lot of questions on many websites about students being in love with a teacher, but its a confusing time. I'm attracted to my teacher. I wouldn't say its love... but i cant stop thinking about him. I only have 2 lessons w... (173 words)

I had sex with my boyfriend when I was talking to another guy. Now the other guy says I cheated!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My relationship with my guy started out all wrong. We met on an internet site not intended to *hook-up* people-MFI (a site were you can have friends and benefactors contribute to your boob job). At the time I wanted implants to restore and enhance my bust. WE were both in ... (285 words)

After 20 years of marriage I just don't love him the way I did before...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is easy for some, but really am serious when I say that I just don't think I can stay married to a man that I promised to spend the rest of my life too. We've been married 20 years now. Things have always had there ups and down. That's to be expected. But these past ... (397 words)

Period comes twice a month.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have my period twice a month, what should i do? ... (13 words)

My ex boyfriend is spreading hateful rumors and threatening me and my new boyfriend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - What do I do if my ex boyfriend is spreading nasty rumors about me? He told about 3 old friends of mine stuff I NEVER said about them and offered false proof, and they sided with him and now they hate me. My current friends tell me that he is going insane, posting hateful ... (251 words)

I like this online guy I'm dating but he still gets on the dating site.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met a lovely guy through a dating website. We have been involved for about 6 weeks. Being in contact every day and meeting up over the weekends. This weekend we spent the whole weekend together and we have a sexual relationship. He is investing a lot of time and effort ... (226 words)

Ex boyfriend tries all my friends and ends up back at me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - (Mod note: Editited for clarity) So my ex boyfriend who i dumped because he liked another girl then asked out my ex-best friend. She said no so he moved on to my other best friend, basically he likes them all. After all of this he asked me back out. Sould I say yes or no? ... (57 words)

She claims she is into me, but won't leave her boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having a very odd situation with a girl i have known for about two years now. I was in a advanced 3D design course and i sat next to her just because i knew no one in the class and she was cute and just gave off a good vibe. We talked a lot but she always seemed to take any ... (1091 words)

I don't enjoy what I know is good sex anymore.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is relating to sex. I have been having issues enjoying sex and i'm not too sure why. Ever since me and my ex broke up 6 months ago I haven't been enjoying sex and have no drive to actually have sex. I had sex last night just to see whether not i'd enjoy it but I ... (133 words)

Trust issues lead him to think that I'm cheating and I don't want to lose him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend of 5 months and i have been having problems lately. alot of trust problems! yesterday i feel asleep at his apartment on his sofa and my phone was charging. i still talk to my ex-bf and some guy friends back home. while i was asleep he went through my phone and ... (241 words)

Three boys and only one choice.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - um i have a crush on three boys in my class lets call them red,blue,green blue:really hot but sometimes mean green:real sweet,cute,nice red:cute,sometimes rude what i want to ask is that which should i like you see my friend likes green and red likes my friend and n... (109 words)

Can't get him to leave me alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so a little background...there was this guy who wouldn't leave me alone no matter how many times i told him i don't date guys. well it got to the point that i went to some friends for help. one of my best friends..lets call her Rachel said she would be completely ok with ... (194 words)

Boy and his mixed signals leaving me confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am fifteen years old, sixteen in November. Me and a boy was boyfriend and girlfriend for two weeks back in August - but before that we were very close and on the verge of being boyfriend and girlfriend all the time for about two months before that. He broke up with me ... (290 words)

I found another man's underwear under the bed!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually just push my older shoes u... (288 words)

I don't think I have ever had an orgasm. What do they feel like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I am 19 and still a virgin and well Ihave never had an orgasm. Well I think I have never had an orgasm i have been turned on and wet but no mind blowing pleasure or anything, I have tried to mastubate and to use toys and to masturbate / use toys whilst reading really dirty ... (100 words)

Does he want to be good friends, or does he "like" me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, I'm really confused and really need to know how i should go ahead.I have been single for a while now and a friend of mine told his best friend about me.While randomly facebooking on my friends wall...this guy added me nd we started chatting up....we talk on ... (213 words)

Boyfriend flirts and pretends to be single online. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently discovered my boyfriend has a networking account on which he behaves as if he were a single guy. He flirts, he apparently texts, and his status when I checked was "looking for random hookups". I called him somewhat hysterically and demanded his password. He gave ... (268 words)

I've stopped talking to my ex girlfriend after she cheated on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I cut off my 4-year GF, cold turkey, after I caught her cheating. She called (and e-mailed) a few times on the first day. It's been 4 days (no contact)... ...when should I expect the pscyho-ex-girlfriend problems to start? What should I expect? ... (46 words)

What does he want? Me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My problems started a few weeks ago, when my boy friend of 3 and a half years admitted that a girl that he is always texting likes him. He said that he would talk to her and sort it out, saying that he just wants to be friends. But he's started to act completely out of ... (184 words)

He broke my confidence and now I don't think I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...so, i came out to my really close friends about 2 months ago and it still scares me a little when they bring it up. i'm so used to hiding that i'm gay, which i'm still hiding from most everyone. anyway this really close friend of mine that i had told (he's gay too), told ... (291 words)

Is it the excitement of someone I cant have, or do I just not feel as much as I should do for my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey agony aunts and uncles.. im warning you this might be a little long, so i apologise in advance! basically, iv been with my boyfriend *ash* for just over a month now. hes my first serious boyfriend, my first everything, if you catch my meaning. hes lovely, hes smart,... (344 words)

Interesting and unsual date ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I was wondering if anyone has any fun or romantic date ideas. My boyfriend and I have been together just over 10 months, and we're both 17. I was hoping for things beyond the usual movie, cinema, ice-skating, dinner sort of things. Not that none of that is great; anytime ... (69 words)

Am I wrong to show concern?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship with a beautiful woman who I'm planning to marry, and everything is going well for the most part, except something happened recently that really made me feel uncomfortable. We both live in China, but I came back to the US to visit my family, and during ... (223 words)

Is there any chance I'm pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I lost my virginity 2 weeks ago, and we didnt use condom, we wanted to have sex without condom, but what is the chances of getting pregnet for the first time sex and not using protection. I last my rirgenity but he didnt stay to long in my vagina, and he came out he never ... (68 words)

How should I behave around this man in the office who sent me a Valentine card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm a little worried. I separated from my husband last year and have been dating a man from work who I have become very close to during the past three years. We have been keeping our relationship a secret. A few weeks' ago I received some Valentine goodies through the ... (156 words)

Could his fingering cause me permanent damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Almost every time my boyfriend fingers me,I bleed. There are times when I haven't,but 9 times out of 10 I do. The bleeding always stops very soon afterwards. I can honestly say that he is a little rough,but I dont actually feel any pain while he is doing it..it's actaully very ... (117 words)

Ex initiated contact & has ignored my reply

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

- Hello We split over 2 months ago after 3 yrs (she left me)and there has been no contact since. Then out of the blue she emailed me to say 'hi, can we talk,would be nice to catch up etc ' I waited a 2\3 days and replied via email saying it was ok for her to call me. That ... (92 words)

For my English project: Is it Affect or Effect?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this isn't to do with relationships but i'm unsure of where else to ask. Basically, i'm doing a speech in english which I have chosen to do on the topic of judgment. My question is : would I entitle it 'the Affect of judgment' or 'the Effect of judgment'? Once I know, I ... (73 words)

I'm not sure I can go through with this pregnancy because I don't want to be a single mum with 2 kids to 2 different fathers

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself in a tricky situation. Im 7 wks pregnant to a guy ive been with for 5 months hes loves me totally but im not sure i feel the same.i feel something but not sure what. Getting pregnant has been a shock an accident. Ive been single for 3 yrs and have a 5 yr old ... (247 words)

Emotionally confused.... Pretty messed up... Please help.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I was wondering if someone could help me in this confusing time. My girlfriend of 4 years just left me for very odd reasons. I support her through everything she does and tell her I love you everyday and that she is beautiful everyday, no one can figure out why she ... (624 words)

Questions about masturbation....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody, well i have a simple question i am 18 years old im still a virgin and well im starting to want to masturbate i already tried a little by rubbing my clit hard and fast but after like a min i get like literally hot like all over and i stop is that normal? And can ... (94 words)

Should I ask if he wants a girlfriend or just sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy that i met online we were chatting on msn. HIM: there are lot of hoes out there ME: i didnt know that HIM: you tell me ME: how would i know more like you tell me HIM: so your decent then? ME: well i dont sleep around so i'd like to think am decent HIM: how ma... (172 words)

I think my vagina is too tight, could I be having some sort of problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i tried to have sex with my bf but penetration was hard and too painful so we had to stop whatever we was heading to. most of the times we would only make out and do some oral sex and fingering and it would not hurt me. i get really too wet that he even says am so juicy but it ... (97 words)

Has my friend's husband crossed the line with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like your opinions please as to whether you think my friend's husband has "crossed the line" with me? I have been close friends with them both for over 20 years. There has always been a bit of a spark between us and even my friend has joked in the past saying that he ... (257 words)

How can I make them pay for what they did to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently broke up with ma guy because he cheated on me with my best friend.they both denied it and it hurt me so much because he took our love for granted and she also took our friendship for granted. what can i do 2 make them pay and see the pain they caused me?... (55 words)

Am I bad in bed because my boyfriend lost his erection during sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

- i have this problem well actually its not me that has it, however i think i am contributing to it. My boyfriend lost his erection during sex and this is the second time it has happened.. We were in the missionary position and to be honest when it happened i felt so so ... (136 words)

My girlfriend sleeps with her lesbian friend but claims they are only good friends and she is not a lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - what if your girlfriend appears to be in love with her lesbo best friend (who has already told my gf she loves her), but says they are only very good friends and she is not a lesbian? they sleep together anytime they can and when she comes home she bloody smells of her perfume ... (81 words)

I don't know what my rights are when it comes to renting this new property, how do I confront my new landlady?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

- I think my new landlord is trying to fob me off and I really need some advice before I confront her! I moved into my new property on Friday. I am renting it through a letting agents. When I first went to look around the place, the estate agent told me I also had use of a gar... (300 words)

My girlfriend is a bit too close to her ex, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now. I met her online and we clicked right away, i found out that she lived with her ex (that she dated for 3 years) cause she didn't want to live at her house. we talked for a couple of months before dating And i ... (292 words)

Is it possible to have a distorted image of yourself? And how do I make my arms slimmer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (?) age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] People that are close to me tell me I have a nice figure, a pretty face, and am very attractive. However, I mostly see something different when I look in the mirror. I have very low self esteem a... (212 words)

Why do guys act like complete jerks in front of their friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys Apart from complete immaturity, why do guys act like complete idiots in front of mates? Was seeing a guy only been out a few times, saw him he was out with his mates. He was a total moron!!!! his mates spoke and were funny, he spent the night ignoring me saying he cou... (84 words)

Should I keep the baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - im 27 and have two boys from two previous relationships and my boy of more than a year is 28 and has a two kids as well with his ex whom he was with for 5 years. we have been living together for a year now and it was great at first but little by little his ex whom they have ... (286 words)

What should I do? My boyfriend might be getting a job with the girl he slept with while we were on a break, and they are texting every day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months we have finished twice for stupid reasons in between this and while we finished he slept with some. We have been back on for 4 months now and it's going brilliantly, but I found texts from the girl he slept with on his phone. I know I ... (257 words)

Why do some guys think all women are hoes that sleep around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - why do some guys think all women are hoes?? that sleeps around?? i find is really rude and very disrespectful. cos am not the type so i get offend when guys talk about girls like that... (41 words)

Is it normal for a guy and girl who are just friends to be holding hands like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I liked a girl whom I met at a pool at a fitness club. She is totally a free minded girl and I like her for that. She once said that she liked to be complimented and I jokingly said that I would compliment her every day. She took it seriously and I started sending her ... (372 words)

Am I stupid for loving him? It was only supposed to be fun, but I fell for him before I knew he had another girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all,i just have no idea how i am feeling now, i just broke up with a German guy(who lives in Beijing),i am a Chinese girl~and he was my colleague last year,and we were just friends,we did not meet up often when we were just friends,but since he knew that i fancy him a lot,he ... (685 words)

My partner wont stop ogling other women even though he knows how much this hurts me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner and father of my 2 children for the past 25 years ogles women but he does it in such a sneaky way and i have caught him many times he has cheated on me in the past and it really hurts me. i have spoken to him about how much this hurts me but he wont stop he likes to ... (197 words)

How do women train men without them knowing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 3 years but I still have trouble understanding him. I currently dont have a job but still pay my share of the bills. He expects me to do everything for him and doesn't thank me for doing it. He doesn't even say please. It's driving me nuts. He gets ... (113 words)

Does my ex regret breaking up with me? And what should I do about my other suitor who is trying to win my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. A few words of advice please. Recently my bf and I broke up, 3 weeks ago. We had a chat and we were talking about futuristic plans and so, he then said that the business he has in nz is going well and when business closes down in sa his going to move to nz. I then ... (228 words)

What does it mean when your partner gets back in touch with an ex from almost a decade ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you think it means and what would you think if your boyfriend of a year (whom loves you and you love him) added an ex girlfriend to his facebook. They dated over 8 years ago for 2 years. She was his first love. They havent been in touch since. ... (55 words)

How to know if she's avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago and we seem to hit off, we talked consistently everyday online via IM. She seemed really into me and I really like her. I asked her out on a date just last week and the date went pretty smoothly, we laughed and joked and had a great ... (364 words)

Why would he need pills for erectile dysfunction when he is away from home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age - My husband travels for business. When he returned from a recent trip, the two cialis pills in his pillbox were gone. Should I ask him what happened to them? He keeps a password on his phone and laptop so I can't check those. We've been married 32 years. Why would he need pills ... (63 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend, but I'm confused about whether I am still in love with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im totally confused about what to do. I broke up last night with my boyfriend of 16 months and I just feel so confused about whether I was still in love with him. Hes the nicest guy in the world and I know he loves me so much, but recently Ive started to feel more like he... (187 words)

Torn between my ex and a guy I have known since I was 13...

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I having been dating a guy for 20months now,we have moved into together and have been living together for 16 months,he was my friend since I was 13.I really do love him,he is a great guy,PROBLEM is I am still in love with my ex whom i dated for 5 years and the connection we ... (86 words)

I'm confused with this sex buddy situation and don't want him to use me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright well I was talking with the this for like 2 weeks... we talked about sex stuff prior and we finally hung out and ended up having sex. Big mistake on my part cause after that the guy started just talking about sex nonstop with me. i told him i get the feeling he is just ... (196 words)

My boyfriend has not broken up with his other girlfriend because she's going through a tough time. Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently discovered that my boyfriend has not broken up with his other girlfriend. He says he cant because she's going through a tough time. Should i wait?... (28 words)

How do I keep our relationship going strong despite her being married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Wow I'm new to this kind of thing. I've found myself in love with a married woman of 26 yrs older whom has three kids and is a grandparent. And I'm both physically and sexually attracted to this woman and I haven't seen her in person, but I do have pictures. I had many attempts ... (150 words)

Have any men out there had affairs but still truly loved their partners?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering, are there any guys out there reading this that have had affairs behind their partners back, but they truly loved their partner? I just found an amazing article online that says that many men have affairs because they're troubled within themselves and searching ... (105 words)

How can I get back to my normal life and get a good job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my Name is Manoj I am 26 year Old i was very active person and i used to take challenges of any Type but it all getting working in negative ways nowdays. Il explain you how it happened when i was preparing for my exams i used to study a lot during my final semester continu... (326 words)

Is it considered cheating if you sleep with a man but don't have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - if a married woman just sleeps with a guy without having sex is that considered cheating??... (16 words)

My relationship is a mess after I cheated on him, and now my career looks like it is going down the drain too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating this guy since 5years now. it had been one of the most beautiful relationships ever all the while through for all the 5years. in the 3rd year i had to leave to another country for study purpose. i got back in 8months and then again was out for 4months.... (403 words)

I'm attracted to my best friend's aunt, how do I go about telling her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I am a male and have been best friends with "Tim" for about 10 years. Lately we have grown apart but still talk, however, I have been attracted to his aunt ever since I was young. Im 22, and recently I found out (through "Tims" girlfriend) that his aunt always ... (122 words)

I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm worried it is too soon and I don't want to be the rebound guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

1 March 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was 18 working at a grocery store when I met her. A beautiful, smart, sarcastic, funny girl. I trained her in the mornings for a few weeks and got to know her better. Her name was "L". She was 10 years older than me and already married. We were good friends at work for a few ... (463 words)

I gave him an handjob recently, is it normal to feel like I did something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okayyy. Well Im 15 and Im with this guy that I love soo much! We have been together for over 4 months(May not seem like long but were so close) and he is the one. I cant tell(Again, may seem like Im too young to know but I know). I just recently gave him a hand job.. Should it ... (65 words)

Should I ask her out or just be her best friend?

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl for weeks and found out she had a boy of 2 years old, but not legally married to the man, asking her if she still in love with this man, which is say No. I ask her why and reply me with 'it personal' i ask her if they had contact on phone she says once in a ... (105 words)

Is it bad that she only says hi to me when she hugs all of my other friends?

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 and i have a friend thats a girl and i like her. i know her more well than my other friends and when she sees my other friends she does stuff like shouting their name and hugging them. all she does is says hi to me. is this a bad thing? :(... (56 words)

Trying to have a baby!

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband are trying to have a Baby. So if i were on top of him and he came inside me like halfway almost at the tip of my entrance and i stand up then go and lay on my back for like 5-10minutes. Could that help us to have a baby. We are just starting to try now...... ... (104 words)

Is my husband being unfair or not?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i have a problem. My husband is behaving like a naughty boy in front of the people he works for. So i ask him why is he trying to be someone he is not? He says he is just enjoying himself. But then he gets out of hand. I never knew him like this. Towards his parents and ... (825 words)

I want to try french kissing but I'm not sure how to ask her if we can....

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i am dating this girl...we have been dating for three months this Thursday...and we know basically everything about each other, we kiss often but it is always soft quick lips only kisses...i really want to try a french kiss but I know she had a bad experience once when ... (73 words)

I don't know how to ask her out since I have never asked out a girl before!

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so I started talking to this cute girl about a week or two ago. She goes to my school and all but I've been starting to like her more and more lately. I don't know how to ask her out since I have never asked out a girl before. She is 14 almost 15 and I'm currently 16. She ... (222 words)

I love him but his past bugs me! What should I do?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i know why this guy cheats well i think i do. his dad used to abuse him as a child and and his father cheated on his mom A LOT. now that doesnt mean i agree with his behavior. (cheated twice). but ive also seen how much pain he went through after each break up now at times i ... (135 words)

I love him and I don't want to lose him, but I feel helpless while he is in a different city with feelings for another girl

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thanks for all of your valuable advices, I really appreciate them all. The good news is that he became close to me( for a short period) but the bad one is that, he has told me that a girl(whom he met at a social networking site and lives in his locality) proposed him onl... (247 words)

How do I prove to my boyfriend that he can trust me again?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months after me and my boyfriend meet, he came across my old my space moods, he started asking questions about some of them. I didn't know what to do other then lie. Since I lied to him about the my space thing, I had to lie about a lot of other questions since then. I ... (232 words)

My boyfriend is putting off getting married, should I stay or should I go?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of five years has been talking to me about getting married as soon as i get a divorce which i have been been married for 4 years to the same man that i was married to when i met my boyfriend. Now im finally getting a divorce in a couple of months and he doesnt want ... (132 words)

Was it a date or not?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have feelings for a friend I met recently and I can't tell if he feels the same. We had never hung out alone before, but he tends to flirt with me when we are in a group. I've seen him flirt with other girls too, so I wrote him off as being the player type until last week ... (193 words)

Sex after birth?

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - We recently had our first baby, (november), and we are just starting to have sex again and my partner has only been ok as long as we have anal, at first I didn't think anything as we have anal sex quite a lot but when I go to give her oral or try to play with her she clams ... (112 words)

Should I wait, or should I make the first move?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize for the length ahead of time as I know this may come out a bit longwinded. I met "J" online. He actually got in touch me with via a popular social networking site (not a dating site). We're both from the same area, and have mutual friends. It turned out that ... (1056 words)

I'm really hurt that she has moved on to someone else so I have been logging into her Facebook account to see what she is doing

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi thanks for reading my other questions here the latest i recently just got dumped by my ex girlfriend *jasmin* and she told me before she thought it would work but it didnt and that i didnt show enough feelings for her and that i ignored her. she worked from 9am to 11pm now ... (123 words)

I don't know what I should do, or if I should do anything at all!

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - not sure how to start.... I met this new guy at work around August 2009. He works at our office in another state but he came down to this state to work for a few weeks. Well, we immediately caught on each others eyes. It was attraction from both of us but all the time he was ... (691 words)

Is it possible to be so obsessed and still be in love?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years, up until now I always thought I had a fairytale story. My husband is a great guy who always is there for me, and a fantastic father.Our sex life is great and exciting. Since december, he has been telling me that he really wants to try new ... (123 words)

What should I do? give him space? wait for him to reach out?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I were discussing past relationships when he stopped me and started to yell at me stating that i did NOT tell him about one of the guys. I know for a fact that I did, i remember the conversation clearly but he is so set saying that i never told him about this ... (196 words)

Are there any ways that I can use to see if a guy likes me, besides for just asking?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Are there any ways that I can use to see if a guy likes me, besides for just asking? I'd like to have that as a last resort. Also, any ideas on how to convince your parents to go with your friends to the beach for a whole day? Cause the guy i "like" will be there too. Th... (65 words)

If I don't have sex with my boyfriend will he go elsewhere?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid that if i dont have sex with my boyfriend he will go somewhere else.Help?... (16 words)

Does he like me or her?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I liked this guy since 2008 and in the 8th grade we would always look at each other...and glance too. I would catch him etc. Nothing happened I was always so shy and I thought he liked this other girl. Now I know he doesn't. K. This year we would be a little fuzzy on the loo... (612 words)

I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to take birthcontrol anymore.

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to take birth control anymore. I don't want to get pregnat. I'm no where near ready for that. I been taking for a year and a half and its starting to make me feel sick. And weak. In reality I never wanted to take it. He didn't ... (153 words)

The idea of oral sex turns her off

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Agony Aunts and Uncles, I've been having a small problem lately with my girlfriend. We've been together for a year, and we've enjoyed together a great sex life, and we also enjoy foreplay almost as much as the sexual act itself, but recently sort of an issue came up, I ... (585 words)

Need help climaxing.

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old girl and I've been masturbating for a while now. I mean, I don't know if it's even considered that because all i do is rub my clit till "orgasm". I've just recently tried fingering myself. I only can use one finger because it's so tight on account of the fact ... (121 words)

I'm 17 and confused about this weird relationship I have with a 25 year old guy.

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a 17 year old girl and I met this 25 year old guy online about a month and a half ago. We literally talked for 10 hours the first day we "met". He's really sweet and is always complimenting me. When it comes to conversation we make each other laugh and at times I feel ... (202 words)

Will the first time really hurt?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am thirteen and have been in a great relationship sence i was nine. With the same guy. I am completely ready for sex. no one can say its puppy love because it is not. not even close he means a lot to me and no one ever made me feel that good. and not in a sexual way he just ... (172 words)

I hit him, he hit me -- should we try to work it out?

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got into a petty arguement which esceladed and then he ended up tossing me around the house. Although I hit him first I still feel its wrong what he did to me. He was abused as a kid and abandoned by his mother. He cried to me and told me he was sorry and he ... (231 words)

Slept next to, not WITH, the ex...

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! Ive been reading the posts here for a little while, and think the advice given here is wonderful and from the heart... so I decided to post something myself... It may be long. I warn you. Here goes: Me an my ex broke up about a year and a half ago, we only dat... (949 words)

So embarrassing!

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was with my friend chilling. Well I guess you can say we are sexually attracted to each other. We always end up having sex when we chill. Well this weekend I chilled with him for a couple of hours. I found out that he had a really bad day...so nothing was really going ... (272 words)

I want to change my life!

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22 and I really want and need to change my life. I can look back now and see that it really started to go down hill from when i was 15. I mean it was pretty standard stuff, i drank with friends, smoked and i used to shop life alot as well. when school finished i didnt ... (347 words)

Does he want the relationship to go further?

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay guys Im a 15 year old male and my boyfriend is 17. We've been going out more a little over a month now. And things are fine as it is. We get along great and i really care for him. And we really haven't gotten to anything sexual..just kissing and making out.But on friday ... (148 words)

He's having performance problems, and I want to help him relax

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So recently my boyfriend of 8 months confessed to me that within the last couple of months he has been getting really nervous about having sex with me because hes worried he cant stay hard anymore. A couple of months ago it happened a couple of times (he went soft) and I didnt ... (222 words)

My b/f doesn't seem to appreciate me anymore

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my Boyfriend dont appreciate me anymore.. ;( whenever i call him he talks to me for like 3 mins and sometimes he just ignores my calls and he blames everything on me..when we fight he just hangs up on me and it hurts idk what to do because he never use to be this ... (106 words)

B/F thinks I'm disrespectful to him, and I'm worried he's getting too close to my friend

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, my bf is really upset at me at the moment, im going out to dinner with my ex later, bf has expressed how much he dosent like me seeing him as it is for coke and a chat in the pub, but he says its not right we should go to dinner and he... (976 words)

He's using her for money!

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1 March 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been together for four years. Where both seniors in high school. My fiance was layed off from his job and his money situation has always been tight growing up. Food, utilities getting turn off etc. My fiance is very good looking and he get a lot of females ... (286 words)

I look much younger than my age. Will it affect my dating life?

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1 March 2010 (F)

- Hi, I just wanted to know people's opinions on whether looking younger than your actual age puts men off. I am 22 but I keep being told I look about 18. I have had two serious relationships in the past, both with guys a couple years older than me. I have been single for ... (215 words)

Dry humping... Is she pregnant?

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1 March 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Can my gf be pregnant? today we dry humped but we were naked, we didn't have protection to go any further, we did it for a short time then we stopped, and i never ejaculated during this time. I'm just worried that maybe the pre-cum can get her pregnant although i didnt ... (69 words)