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Three boys and only one choice.

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Question - (1 March 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *oMeOnE!! writes:

um i have a crush on three boys in my class

lets call them red,blue,green

blue:really hot but sometimes mean

green:real sweet,cute,nice

red:cute,sometimes rude

what i want to ask is that which should i like

you see my friend likes green and red likes my friend and now i think she likes him back i want to be a good friend but idk

blue is sometimes mean but he could be really funny and sweet at sometimes.

help. . . . . . . . .

cause i cant take the sadness anymore :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010):

Look, you need to STEP BACK and consider that at your age you do NOT need to choose. Dating doesn't need to be exclusive and at your age you need to be open to mix socially. If you get to a point where you want to be exclusive (IMO, a mistake at your age) then go there... but in the past, women (girls) were free to date a few guys w/o it being a problem. Dating should be casual, and you're not sleeping around... for that, you need an exclusive relationship.

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntGreen for sure. but i think you should talk to your friend who likes him, to make sure how she feels.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

definitely midori, i.e. green.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

Learn the lesson young: Don't go with mean and rude guys, no matter how "hot" you think they are. Women, for some strange reason, always seem to be attracted to the guys who treat them like crap. Take a step back: who would you tell a friend or your sister to date? It's important to be attracked to the guy, but make sure that the guys isn't a jerk. And take it slow. Guys don't respect fast girls.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (1 March 2010):

The Realist agony auntI think green would be your best choice based on the info you gave, especially if your friend is starting to like red. Blue you seem hesitant on and red you described as cute and rude which doesn't sound that great. Green is probably the best one.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2010):

If you have a crush on all three, then none of them is right for you. And certainly 'blue' is the worst of all. I'd suggest continuing to work on yourself. When you're ready, you'll find one guy who you really like.

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A female reader, xcountry7 United States +, writes (1 March 2010):

I would go out with green, he sounds really nice.

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