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26-29,
*oMeOnE!!
writes: um i have a crush on three boys in my classlets call them red,blue,greenblue:really hot but sometimes meangreen:real sweet,cute,nicered:cute,sometimes rudewhat i want to ask is that which should i like you see my friend likes green and red likes my friend and now i think she likes him back i want to be a good friend but idk blue is sometimes mean but he could be really funny and sweet at sometimes.help. . . . . . . . . cause i cant take the sadness anymore :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): Look, you need to STEP BACK and consider that at your age you do NOT need to choose. Dating doesn't need to be exclusive and at your age you need to be open to mix socially. If you get to a point where you want to be exclusive (IMO, a mistake at your age) then go there... but in the past, women (girls) were free to date a few guys w/o it being a problem. Dating should be casual, and you're not sleeping around... for that, you need an exclusive relationship.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (2 March 2010):
Green for sure. but i think you should talk to your friend who likes him, to make sure how she feels.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): definitely midori, i.e. green.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Learn the lesson young: Don't go with mean and rude guys, no matter how "hot" you think they are. Women, for some strange reason, always seem to be attracted to the guys who treat them like crap. Take a step back: who would you tell a friend or your sister to date? It's important to be attracked to the guy, but make sure that the guys isn't a jerk. And take it slow. Guys don't respect fast girls.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (1 March 2010):
I think green would be your best choice based on the info you gave, especially if your friend is starting to like red. Blue you seem hesitant on and red you described as cute and rude which doesn't sound that great. Green is probably the best one.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
If you have a crush on all three, then none of them is right for you. And certainly 'blue' is the worst of all. I'd suggest continuing to work on yourself. When you're ready, you'll find one guy who you really like.
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reader, xcountry7 +, writes (1 March 2010):
I would go out with green, he sounds really nice.
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