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anonymous
writes:I'm attracted to my teacher!? I know that there is a lot of questions on many websites about students being in love with a teacher, but its a confusing time. I'm attracted to my teacher. I wouldn't say its love... but i cant stop thinking about him. I only have 2 lessons with him. He is my biology teacher. He is not married and has a child. My biology teacher is around early 30's. He smiles at me quite a lot and he calls me Mrs.(surname) I am the only student he calls by last name. I'm not sure what this means. I don't mind him calling me by my surname. I know I cant do anything about this... so no one tell me "you need to stop this straight away" because I already know! This is a confusing time for me as I am only 14... When he smiles at me i get butterflies in my stomach, I love just seeing him... he makes me happy!
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady +, writes (9 March 2010):
Be careful. I had a crush on a teacher when i was your age and i prayed desperately prayed for it to go somewhere-- for him to want me and for us to end up together. And you know what? I got my wish-- but it stands to be careful for what you wish for. Unfortunately being with him wasn't what i thought it would be, he was in his 40s and for 4 years he strung me along, molested me and then when i didnt give him what he wanted he blackmailed me. I thought he was nice-- i thought he was sweet, caring, interesting, thoughtful. I reported him to the school i was not believed, i went to the police they couldnt do anything without evidence and it turns out he's done this to a load of girls before me also. Getting a crush is usually harmless but just know never to put yourself out there and be careful what you wish for. The only thing i can recommend is to read books on the subject; proper literature books sometimes this can help you to understand your feelings and work through things.
I can guess that in part you want these feelings, you like feeling the way you do; and this is ok so long as you realize that alot of pain can come from desiring something both poisonness and unobtainable. In retrospect i wish that i could have let be the feelings that i had; you find often that these feelings arent literally what you think and infact they are telling you about something else in your life. Something missing. We have a habit of burying our feelings and so they come out in other things; maybe there are problems somewhere else in your life that you need work through and identify because i doubt very much that your feelings have anything to do with the man you have attached them to. 'We cannot want for something we do not know or understand'. I hope that all is well, and you find whatever it is you are looking for, whatever it is that is missing.
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reader, nessabarela505  +, writes (2 March 2010):
Just be very cautious. I know your probably aware of what can happen. He's at an age where he should know better don't take anything that he does outta loop. You'll get over it there's a bunch of boys running around your school. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 March 2010):
It's a crush, nothing more. And it will pass in time. So enjoy it.
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