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writes:my partner and father of my 2 children for the past 25 years ogles women but he does it in such a sneaky way and i have caught him many times he has cheated on me in the past and it really hurts me. i have spoken to him about how much this hurts me but he wont stop he likes to do it when he feels im not looking or when hes behind me but i always catch him. my son also tells me that he does it when he takes him to school so i know its not in my mind. we went to a party on sat he kept staring at a woman who was with her partner i caught him and asked him why are you staring at that woman he denied this then im sure she saw him when i glanced in that direction her partner was looking at my husband then he put his arms around her and turned her the other way. i havnt got big boobs and i am conscious of this but especially looks at pretty woman with big boobs and hips i am so depressed, sharonx
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reader, chloeapple +, writes (1 March 2010):
Men will always look at other women, but it sounds like he is obviously disrespecting you. I would be seriously pissed off. Is this man a nice loving partner? If not, I would ask myself why I was with him at all.
Tell him that its fine to check out other women, but to be blatantly disrespecting your feelings when he has already cheated on you in the past, is reason enough in my book to tell him where to go if he can't find a way to accommodate your feelings. That your son is even aware of it is disgusting. Its not the act itself- its the massive disrespect that comes with it given your past history.
Stand up for yourself, give him one more chance to redeem himself. Talk to him calmly and say you aren't going to put up with, tell him you don;t expect him to become a saint, but you do expect and deserve an effort.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 March 2010):
 There are things you cannot change in a man . You have to accept that certain things will never change in them before and after marriage.
All you can do is to change your perceptions of them and understand what goes through their minds.
Boys will be boys. You can’t complain if your guy notices your pretty office receptionist.
If she’s pretty, he will notice! That’s his primal tendency.
You can’t change what comes naturally to him and there’s no need to be overly jealous about it.
When a pretty woman comes under his radar, his mind goes on auto pilot and is hijacked !!!
reference:-
10 Things You Just Can’t Change About Men!
http://allwomenstalk.com/10-things-you-just-can%E2%80%99t-change-about-men/
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