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Should I ask if he wants a girlfriend or just sex?

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Question - (1 March 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

this guy that i met online we were chatting on msn.

HIM: there are lot of hoes out there

ME: i didnt know that

HIM: you tell me

ME: how would i know more like you tell me

HIM: so your decent then?

ME: well i dont sleep around so i'd like to think am decent

HIM: how many guys u slept with?

ME: thats a bit personal dont you think?

HIM: is it really that bad?

he wants to take me out next week.. i said i will let him know because am busy,, he said i should make time for him cos i make him feel like hes just anyone..wtf??

should I ask him what he wants.. if he wants girlfriend. or someone to sleep with?? because there is no way hes going to get anything from me.

what do you think?? should i ask him?? or cut him off??

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A female reader, bubbleyum1998 United States +, writes (2 March 2010):

dang get rid of that jerk

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2010):

Cut him off. He's after a girl to use.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2010):

boo22 agony auntHe sounds like he has a big problem with women generally.

He comes across like a guy with not a whole lot of brain.

Pass on this one and wait for a better guy

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A male reader, Faraday United Kingdom +, writes (1 March 2010):

Faraday agony auntIf that is the sum total of his conversation, do you really need to ask?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

i dont really like the sound of this guy. he seems to just be after sex.. and simply asking him if thats all he wants probably wont help because even if you ask him he's unlikely to tell you the truth.. guys are smart enough to work out that most girls wont sleep with them if they say thats all they're after. to me, that conversation you have copied and pasted just sounds like him basically saying...

there's plenty of hoes out there.. "are you one"

are you decent.. "are you easy"

how many guys you slept with.. "are you up for it with me"

is it really that bad.. "i dont respect you so just tell me so i can work out if im gona get a shag out of you or not"

obviously thats a very .. optionated.. translation, but thats sure as hell how it comes across. you sound like a respectful girl, so ditch the dufus and go for someone better who will respect you too.

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A female reader, kissyheart India +, writes (1 March 2010):

i personally think that you should stop talking to him...

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